9 Best Strap-On Dildos In 2024, REALLY Tested! [Video Reviews]

Whether new to pegging or a seasoned player juggling the numerous harnesses and dildos available you’ve come to the right place. Here, we review all the popular strap-on toys, including a few harnesses and complete kits.

One product that has remained a favorite over the years is VixSkin Johnny. The 8″ silicone dildo has a realistic design with a dual-density shaft, veiny texture, rounded head, and wrinkled balls. And with an anal-safe flat base that’s harness-compatible, VixSkin Johnny is suitable for both vaginal and anal play.

Why You Should Trust Us

For this article, Rachel Sommer spearheaded thorough research on the highest-rated strap-on dildos on the market. With the help of sex experts at My Sex Toy Guide, the team paid attention to long-standing models and new market entrants, focusing on personal testing to have a more diverse opinion about the strap-on dildos. Rachel also looked into customer reviews and accounts from sex toy forums to supplement the testing and expert opinions.

If you have questions or product recommendations, don’t hesitate to reach out. You can call Rachel at +1 307-372-3895 or send an email to [email protected]. We also try to answer all comments left on our articles.

How We Picked the Products

I picked 38 products for this article, including harnesses, dildos, complete pegging kits, and strapless strap-ons. I brought in my colleagues at My Sex Toy Guide to help me with picking new market entrants and self-testing the final list. Before I distributed the strap-ons, I defined test criteria that we could measure on a scale from 0 to 100. These included:

• Design. Our review samples must have a rounded head and curved shaft to simplify insertion and promote precise G-spot/P-spot targeting. Other essential design tweaks we focused on include dual-density shafts for users after ultra-realistic experiences and numerous harness O-rings/plug attachments for users with multiple dildos.
• Settings. Like other sex toys, we paid attention to strap-ons with multiple settings. And especially the vibrating models, the more, the better.
• Stimulations. Besides vibrations, we also considered strap-on toys with other forms of stimulation. From squirting to thrusting toys, we spread our nets far and wide to ensure everyone got something to match their sexual needs.
• Build Quality. The design might be vital, but we didn’t overlook the importance of body-safe sex toy materials to the strap-on sex experience. All the strap-ons we reviewed were made from hypoallergenic materials to avoid skin irritations and other problems.
• Safety. Like other anal sex toys, they must have a flared base to be considered for this list. You don’t want to be the guy in the ER with a massive dildo submerged in your ass. Do you?
• Comfort. Comfort is essential whether opting for a harness-type or a strapless model. The harness and the penetrative arm must be made from a comfortable material, so the wearer and receiver enjoy the experience equally.
• Charging. For vibrating and squirting models, we prioritized those with a rechargeable battery. Unlike disposable batteries, these are more reliable and environmentally friendly. Most importantly, we looked into the charging time vs. output. There’s no need to wait the whole night for it to charge only to squeeze in 20 minutes of action. Is there?
• Special Features (remote control). Ease of use is a significant part of strap-on sex. So, I underlined the relevance of having models with a phone app (Lovense Lapis) or a remote control (Desire Luxury) to enhance partner play.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Stimulations (25%). After that comes Versatility (10%), Build Quality (10%), and Size (10%).

Finally, the reviewers returned with their findings after a 30-day exercise and I asked the help from my colleagues to analyze the findings. In a record 32 hours, we had a simplified list to work with. With additional information on sex toy reviews and forum accounts from the research team, we skimmed the number further, picking the best dildo from each category.

And from the extensive yet holistic collective effort, we believe these are this year’s nine best strapon dildos.

Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

Name	Johnny	Curved	Desire Luxury	Big Shot	King Cock	Lover Classic	Perfect Partner	Joque	Accommodator
Category	Best Overall	Budget	Strapless	Squirting	Huge	Vibrating	Hollow	Harness	Chin
Average Rating	95%	94%	93%	92%	91%	90%	89%	88%	87%
Design	96%	94%	93%	92%	90%	91%	89%	87%	87%
Comfort	95%	95%	93%	94%	89%	88%	89%	90%	85%
Build Quality	93%	94%	93%	92%	91%	92%	92%	89%	88%
Settings	94%	93%	95%	91%	93%	90%	88%	88%	87%
Stimulations	95%	92%	94%	92%	92%	91%	89%	89%	89%
Safety	95%	95%	92%	90%	94%	90%	90%	85%	84%
Battery Life	94%	93%	92%	93%	89%	92%	93%	89%	89%
Special Features	96%	95%	93%	93%	91%	90%	89%	87%	86%
Price & Value	87%	96%	90%	92%	94%	93%	95%	89%	95%
Price Tag	$159.99	$24.99	$119.99	$89.99	$44.99	$59.99	$29.99	$149.99	$29.95
Material	Silicone	Silicone	Silicone & ABS	Silicone	PVC	Plastic	PVC	Nylon, Spandex & Velcro	Latex
Circumference	5.75 inches	4 inches	4.25 inches	N/A	7 inches	5 inches	6 inches	N/A	4.7 inches
Insertable Length	7 inches	6 inches	5 inches	6 inches	8.5 inches	6.5 inches	6 inches	N/A	5.5 inches

1. VixSkin Johnny: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why we love Vixskin Johnny:

If you’re in the market for the most realistic strap-on dildo, Vixen Creations Johnny Vixskin is our highest-rated on this list. The 8″ Johnyy has realistic detailing, including a veiny shaft, rounded head, and a pronounced coronal ridge to simulate a natural penis. Johnny also has a dual-density design with a firm inner core and soft outer skin that looks and feels like an erect penis.

Besides the upward curve that makes it easy to target the G-spot or prostate, the realistic balls blew our tester’s minds (circled below). They’re spongy and soft to the touch, making the experience even more thrilling.

The testers also loved that VixSkin Johnny has a 7″ insertable length and 5.75″ circumference. It’s not the most intimidating figure we’ve reviewed, making an excellent dildo choice for intermediaries and experienced users.

We also liked that Johnny has a harness-compatible flat base for pegging play fans. You can use multiple harnesses as long as you have a 1.5″ diameter O-ring.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, Johnny is expensive. It costs $159.99, a figure most sex toy users find steep for a non-vibrating dildo. I also thought the flat base with wrinkled balls made handling more complicated, especially for people with small hands.

The testers also pointed out the sticky surface caused by the dual-density design. It doesn’t slide as swiftly as traditional dildos; therefore, you need more lube with Vixen products to prevent chafing.

Why VixSkin Johnny is the top strap-on dildo:

The testers rated VixSkin Johnny the highest in the most critical areas, making it our best strap-on dildo for all genders. Let’s look at the raw test data to see how we motivated the decision to put it at the top of the list:

• Design: The testers loved the size, realism, and overall detailing on Johnny, especially the prominent veins and coronal ridge. It received an impressive rating of 96% in this critical category, the highest among all products we tested.
• Material: Johnny is 100% made from non-porous Silicone, which is body-safe and easy to clean. The high-quality silicone also made insertion easy.
• Stimulations: Some testers pointed out the slightly squishy penis tip, but it still provided good prostate and G-spot stimulation. However, some on the test team wished it had marginally more curvature for better targeting.

If you want to see what Vixskin Johnny looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Material: Silicone
• Circumference: 5.75″
• Length: 8
• Insertable Length: 7″

Pros:

• An ultra-realistic strap-on dildo for men and women.
• The impressive dual-density design simulates a natural penis.
• It’s made from high-quality silicone material.
• VixSkin Johnny is ideal for vaginal and anal play.
• You can use different harnesses.

Cons:

• Johnny is pricey – $159.99.

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2. Lovehoney Curved: Beginner & Budget Pick!

Why we love Lovehoney Curved:

The Lovehoney Curved is our favorite strap-on dildo for beginners and people on a budget. For $24.99, the small strap-on dildo is a bargain.

Something that stood out during our review was the harness-compatible base, making it easy to explore hands-free pegging play. In addition, the base has a suction cup design, allowing you to clamp Lovehoney Curved on any flat surface and effortless stroking action (see our demonstration below).

The testers reported that the Lovehoney Curve is made from body-safe silicone, with a noticeable smooth finish and tapered tip, making insertion easy. Its curved shaft also makes G-spot and P-spot stimulation more precise.

It also has a small pouch beneath the suction cup base for a bullet vibrator (circled red below). Those after a rumbly experience can thus slide their favorite bullet and enjoy the added excitement.

Lovehoney Curved has a 6″ usable length and 4″ circumference, making it perfect for beginners and intermediaries. The dildo offers an outstanding balance between ease of use and formidable challenge.

Note: You’ll need a 1.5″ diameter O-ring to use the dildo with a harness.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the vibe pops out at the base affecting the suction pressure during use. So, you have to choose one over the other. The 4″ girth is also not that impressive unless you are a complete dildo beginner.

Why Lovehoney Curved is our beginner-friendly & affordable pick:

Lovehoney Curved costs only $24.99, a bargain considering its silicone design, curved shaft, suction cup base, and bullet vibe pouch. Let’s look at what else the test report said:

• Design: Everyone loved the beginner-friendly design of this dildo, especially the gently curved shape, perfect size, and tapered tip.
• Ease of Use: Lovehoney Curved is foolproof and extremely beginner-friendly. The suction cup received a lot of praise, and everyone agreed it was easy to attach to most smooth surfaces. Overall, it received an average rating of 95% (the highest on this list) in this critical category.

If you want to see what Lovehoney Curved looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Material: Silicone
• Circumference: 4″
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• The cheapest strap-on dildo.
• It’s made from soft silicone material.
• A decent suction cup base for hands-free riding.
• The pink dildo is ideal for G-spot and prostate stimulation.
• A curved semi-realistic shaft enhances precise stimulation.

Cons:

• Adding a bullet vibrator messes with the suction.

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3. Lovehoney Desire Luxury: Strapless Model!

Why we love Lovehoney Desire Luxury:

We recommend Lovehoney Desire if you’re an experienced sex toy user looking for a premium strapless pegging dildo. The well-made Lovehoney Desire features a contoured pony for the wearer and a penetrative shaft for the receiver. We also noted that the shaft is contoured to enhance the quality of sensations.

The testers especially loved the flexible pony (circled in blue below). We thought the designers did a great job, ensuring Desire Luxury fits different people regardless of their body shape or size. You can easily regulate the shaft’s position and angle to your preferred one.

Something else we noted during the review was the easy-to-use remote control (image below). My colleagues thought it was a welcome addition, especially for couples, because it allows your partner to regulate the rumbles from across the room, leaving you to focus on other pleasure zones, ultimately promoting explosive orgasms.

The double strap-on dildo has a powerful motor with impressive eight vibration patterns and twelve intensity levels. I thought the vibration combinations provided a broad table of possibilities to explore.

Minor issues we found during testing:

One improvement would be the possibility of controlling the vibrations independently. People like different simulation types, and we hope Lovehoney will include this function in a future upgrade.

Strapless strap-on dildos are reserved for experienced sex toy users, and newbies will need time and a great deal of Kegel training to use the Desire Luxury.

Pro Tip: Our tester Angela shared this valuable tip to better keep it inside: “After trying it, I realized there’s a little trick to getting it to stay in place. The penetrating person should close their thighs tightly so the toy doesn’t slip out. If you don’t close your legs tightly, you must do an extreme Kegel to keep it inside the whole time.”

Why Lovehoney Desire Luxury is the best Strapless Strap-On Dildo:

Everything from the contoured design to the multi-vibration motor and easy-to-use remote control stands out. In addition, it performed very well in the versatility test criteria:

• Versatility: The primary benefit of a strapless model is how much closer you get to your partner compared to a harness product, making it perfect if you want more intimacy in your pegging sessions. The reviewers also highlighted the practical joint, which you modify to control the distance to your partner.

If you want to see what Desire Luxury looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
• Circumference: 4.25″ (shaft), 4.75″ (pony)
• Insertable Length: 5″ (shaft), 4.5″ (pony)

Pros:

• A well-made luxury strapless strap-on.
• Multiple vibration combinations – 8 vibration modes and 12 speeds.
• The contoured design enhances the wearer’s comfort while amplifying the sensations.
• A posable pony means the Desire Luxury fits many vagina shapes and sizes.
• It has an intuitive remote control.

Cons:

• Unfortunately, the remote control is battery-powered.

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4. Big Shot: Squirting Function!

Why we love the Big Shot:

We graded Evolved Novelties’ Big Shot as the perfect choice for squirting dildo fans because of the built-in reservoir that shoots semen on demand. Unlike models with a separate syringe, it’s neater and more good-looking to the eyes.

Big Shot has a realistic design with bulging veins, a rounded head, and wrinkled balls, simulating the look of a real penis. While it might be firmer than a human penis, I thought the designers did a great job on this one.

The testers also loved the dildo’s robust motor that churns out multiple vibration patterns. The 10 vibration modes make it ideal for different users, with the highest setting striking a worthy punch even for the most experienced guys. You can feel the tremor heat your vaginal walls as you cycle through the patterns.

The easy twist cap simplifies semen refilling (image below). With two easy-to-use buttons at the bottom to regulate the vibration modes and ejaculation function, Big Shot is foolproof.

The USB-rechargeable strap-on has a strong suction cup base that helps free your hands so you can focus on other pleasure zones, leading to thrilling solo and coupled fun. It’s also compatible with O-ring harnesses for pegging fans.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The main flax is the stiff shaft, which may be an issue for people with a sensitive clitoris. We also wished it came with a cleaning manual since it’s not very straightforward how you are supposed to clean it.

Why Big Shot is the best squirting strap-on dildo:

We recommend the Big Shot if you’re looking for a good ejaculating strap-on dildo mainly because of its intuitive 2-button interface and realistic design. We also gave bonus points to the 10 vibration patterns that complemented the squirting action very well. It also performed well in the following test criteria:

• Special Features: The semen reservoir was better than the other models we tested, which mostly had an inferior syringe pump mechanism. The suction cup also received a high score (93%); the testers could mount it on most flat surfaces.

If you want to see what Big Shot looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Material: Silicone
• Width: 1.625″
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• Impressive 10 vibration speeds and functions.
• An ultra-realistic design, complete with a set of squishy balls.
• It has a harness-compatible suction cup base.
• Intuitive 2-button control interface.
• Big Shot is USB-rechargeable.

Cons:

• Unfortunately, the Big Shot is a firm dildo – people with sensitive G-spots will not like it.

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5. King Cock Ultra Realistic: Great For Size!

Why we love King Cock Ultra Realistic:

King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy with its 9″ length and 7″ circumference place it at the pinnacle of the largest dildos on the market. With realistic detailing to add to the size, King Cock is a beast, only ideal for our most experienced readers.

In addition, King Cock has a strong suction cup base for hands-free stroking action. The flexible base attaches to hard, flat surfaces like shower walls and floors, freeing your hands and allowing you to explore other pleasure zones during play.

I liked the realistic detailing, including the lifelike shaft, rounded head, and pronounced coronal ridge (image above). The natural design and enormous size make the King Cock Ultra ideal for depth and girth play.

Minor issues we found during testing:

My only concern with King Cock was the PVC material. Like other PVC models, the King Cock has a characteristic plasticky smell that goes away with a few washes.

Why King Cock Ultra Realistic is the best large strap-on dildo:

King Cock Ultra Realistic has a flexible, realistic shaft, an impressive 9″ length, and a harness-compatible suction cup base, all of which were rated highest by the test team. In addition, it performed well in the following areas:

• Size: King Cock’s 8.5″ insertable length and 7″ circumference is reserved for size queens and kings. Although the test reports highlighted the bad PVC smell, the reviewers praised its impressive size. “It’s a giant for you to domesticate,” noted one tester.
• Design: The realistic design and harness-compatible suction base also received excellent ratings

If you want to see what King Cock Ultra Realistic looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Material: PVC
• Circumference: 7″
• Length: 9″
• Insertable Length: 8.5″

Pros:

• Huge pegging dildo – 9″ long.
• Realistic detailing – veined shaft, rounded head, and soft balls.
• A slight curve promotes precise stimulation.
• An ideal choice for experienced users.
• It has a harness-compatible suction cup base.

Cons:

• PVC has an unpleasant plastic smell.

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6. Lifelike Lover Classic: Great For Vibrations!

Why we love Lifelike Lover Classic:

Lifelike Lover Classic is the top-rated vibrating pegging dildo. For starters, it features a realistic design with a veined shaft, a penis-like head, and squeezable balls.

Besides the textured details, we loved the powerful motor, with 7 patterns and 3 vibration speeds on show. It even has a remote control for thrilling couples or solo play.

The versatile toy has a suction cup base that offers hands-free pleasure. The harness-compatible bottom also means you can pair it with any harness as long as it has a 1.5″ diameter O-ring for intense pegging play.

Lifelike Lover Classic is also one of the most affordable strap-on dildos we reviewed. It only costs $59.99, a steal for a vibrating dildo.

Something else that stood out during my review was the beginner-friendly measurements. It’s 6.5″ long with a girth of 5″, making it ideal for newbies and mid-level users. I especially loved the squishy and flexible soft plastic material because it’s accommodative, even for those without much dildo experience.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside was the vibrations. I thought they could be more assertive. In addition, the remote control is battery-powered, which is not the ideal choice for adult toys.

Why Lifelike Lover Classic is the top vibrating strap-on dildo:

If you’re looking for a vibrating strap-on dildo, this affordable model is my top pick. Besides the textured details, the Lifelike Lover Classic has 10 vibration combinations and an intuitive remote control to enhance couples’ play. Its suction cup base is also harness-compatible, allowing for delightful pegging play.

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• Material: Soft Plastic
• Circumference: 5″
• Length: 8″
• Insertable Length: 6.5″

Pros:

• Realistic detailing.
• It has a powerful motor with 7 patterns and 3 vibration speeds.
• A strong suction cup base.
• You can use it with any compatible strap-on harness.

Cons:

• The vibrations could be stronger.

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7. Lovehoney Perfect Partner: Our Favorite Hollow Model!

Why we love Lovehoney Perfect Partner:

Lovehoney Perfect Partner is the most effective hollow pegging dildo on this list. The 6″ hollow dildo adds a chunk of ‘meat’ over your penis during sex, leading to more intense sensations and may help with ED and PE issues.

The soft and flexible PVC dildo has a realistic texture with pumped veins on the shaft, a natural penis head, and a mild coronal ridge. It also has a slight upward curve, making it perfect for G-spot and prostate stimulation.

Lovehoney Perfect Partner warmly covers the penis, adding the extra inches in length and girth you’ve always wanted. It especially comes in handy for people with size and performance issues like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

The adjustable harness is elastic to provide a comfortable and perfect fit. It even has popper fastenings to ensure you get a custom fit.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Besides adding a few inches, the PVC layer reduces sensitivity, so you can last longer during sex before ejaculating. While PVC has an unpleasant plastic smell, I thought the soft finish made it comfortable for both the wearer and the receiver.

Why Lovehoney Perfect Partner is the top hollow strap-on dildo:

If you’re looking for a good hollow strap-on dildo, you should add Lovehoney Perfect Partner to your shopping cart today The 6″ hollow dildo adds inches over your dick for intense penetrative sex and the textured PVC skin layer did a great job reducing sensitivity so you can last longer in bed.

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• Material: PVC
• Circumference: 6″
• Length: 6.5″
• Insertable Length: 6″
• Internal Length: 4″

Pros:

• A well-made hollow strap-on dildo.
• Realistic design with a veined shaft and rounded head.
• Perfect Partner adds inches to your dick size for explosive penetrative sex.
• It has an adjustable harness that’s comfortable on the waist.
• The slight upward curve enhances stimulation precision.

Cons:

• PVC has an unpleasant plastic smell. Silicone or TPE would have been better.

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8. Spareparts Joque: Our Favorite Harness!

Why we love Spareparts Joque:

What we like most about the Spareparts Joque is its versatility, thanks to the stretchable O-ring that accommodates all 1.25 – 2″ diameter dildos. Besides the impressive compatibility, it also has two functional pouches, from which you can add bullet vibes for extra stimulation. While the vibrations aren’t as assertive, both partners can feel the rumbles around the crotch. Jessica loved the mild clitoral stimulation.

The testers also appreciated Spareparts Joque’s adjustable straps over the waist and legs. Unlike other strap-on harnesses, we found it exceptionally comfortable even when worn for extended periods. With a design that accommodates waist sizes 20 – 50″, the harness is ideal for couples looking for a sex product to share without worrying about one not fitting well.

The Spareparts Joque strap-on harness is made from breathable materials that feel great against bare skin. I especially noted the soft mesh lining that distributes the harness’ weight evenly for a more comfortable and blissful pegging experience.

Minor issues we found during testing:

My only concern was the price. The unisex harness costs $149.99, a steep price for most sex toy users.

Why Spareparts Joque is our preferred strap-on dildo harness:

Besides the high price, the Spareparts Joque strap-on harness topped our list. It’s made from breathable materials, with adjustable straps over the waist and legs, providing a custom fit. Most importantly, the built-in O-ring accommodates all harness-ready dildos with a 1.25 and 2″ diameter.

• Material: High-quality Nylon, Spandex, & Velcro
• Size: 20 – 50″
• O-ring Diameter: 1.25 – 2″

Pros:

• High-quality strap-on harness.
• The breathable material feels comfortable.
• It has a stretchable O-ring to accommodate 1.25 – 2″ dildos.
• Two mini pockets for vibrating bullets.
• The jock-style straps ensure a perfect harness fit.

Cons:

• It’s expensive – $149.99.
• The bullets don’t have a significant impact on the experience.

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9. The Accommodator: Great Chin-Mounted Model!

Why we love The Accommodator:

Cal Exotics latex chin strap dildo is a portable kinky sex product for couples that love to keep things exciting in the bedroom. The easy-to-use strap-on adds possibilities to oral sex, allowing you to lick, suck, and insert a 5.5″ dildo into your partner’s vagina or ass. Your hands are also free to caress your partner’s breasts, clitoris, or inner thighs for more stimulation.

Something that stood out was the latex harness that goes over your head. The double elastic straps go around the upper neck and the occipital for a stable and comfortable fit.

I also liked the realistic detailing, with bulging veins, a rounded head, and a slightly curved shaft for precise stimulation. And while the extra squishy latex material means the textured shaft wasn’t as assertive as other strap-ons, I enjoyed the new dimension of pleasure during oral sex.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside with the face strap-on dildo was the latex material. Besides the slight plastic smell, the black strap-on dildo is non-porous, and cleaning was tedious.

Why The Accommodator is the top chin strap-on dildo:

The Accommodator is the most recommended chin strap-on dildo for kinky couples looking to enjoy wild oral sex. Most importantly, the Accommodator and strap-on combo go over the head quickly, and the flexible design will fit most people.

You can find more black dildos here. We also have an article with more chin strap dildo products.

• Material: Latex
• Diameter: 1.5″
• Length: 5.5″

Pros:

• Stretchy latex dildo and chin harness combo.
• The realistic detailing adds to the visual appeal.
• It has a slight curve for precise stimulation.
• The 5.5″ dildo adds penetrative capabilities to oral sex.
• It frees your hands to focus on other pleasure zones during oral sex.

Cons:

• It’s only available in one size.
• Latex is not the preferred sex toy material.

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What Is a Strap-On Dildo?

A strap-on dildo is a unique sex toy compatible with a harness worn around the wearer’s waist. The two-part sex toy also features a dildo that makes it easy for women to assume the dominant role during sex and enjoy penetrating their partner.

Some strap-on-dildos feature a strapless design. Instead of the harness, there’s an insertable pony for the wearer and a penetrative shaft for the receiver.

But Why Should I Buy One?

One main reason to buy a strap-on dildo is to enjoy the thrill of hands-free penetrative sex. The harness and dildo combo frees your hands, so you can focus on other pleasure zones, leading to a more thrilling experience and intense orgasms.

They allow kinky heterosexual couples to explore power play, with the woman assuming the dominant role while the man submits. And with numerous models available, anal pegging play fans can make the most of these unique dildos, including exploring prostate stimulation.

Lesbian couples can also use strap-on dildos to explore the pleasures of realistic penis-into-vagina penetrative sex. It allows the wearer to take the driver’s seat while the receiver enjoys intercourse. With the introduced dynamic in the relationship, lesbian couples can use these strap-on toys to spice things up in the bedroom.

How To Use a Strap-On Dildo?

I recommend you try wearing the harness in the house with or without the dildo to get used to the experience. During this time, you can use the dildo to figure out the most comfortable positions and dildo placement on your crotch as you build up your confidence [2].

Pro Tip: Strapless strap-ons require much time and Kegel exercises to master. So, practice and give yourself time.

Once ready, pour a water-based lube on the dildo and your partner’s orifice to simplify insertion and make the experience more natural. Also, reapply the lube regularly, especially if you’re pegging your partner, because, unlike the vagina, the ass doesn’t self-lubricate.

Lastly, try different penetration angles and positions. Variety is the spice of life, and juggling makes the experience more thrilling.

You can read more on how to do pegging safely in this guide. We also have a guide on how to use a strap-on dildo.

How To Clean a Strap-On Dildo?

Once you’re done using the strap-on:

• Use a sex toy cleaner, antibacterial soap, and warm water to wash the dildo.
• Follow the manufacturer’s guidelines to clean the harness.
• Air dry or use a lint-free cloth to dry the dildo after cleaning.
• You can sterilize silicone dildos with hot water.
• Never submerge motorized vibrators and leather straps in water – wipe with a clean, damp cloth.

Here’s a detailed guide on how to clean strap-on, depending on the material.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How Does a Strap-On Dildo Work?

They work by freeing your hands, with a waist harness holding the dildo on your crotch so you can enjoy penis-into-vagina penetration, even if you don’t have a penis. Strapless strap-ons have a pony that goes into the vagina and a protruding shaft that simulates a penis [1].

How To Put on A Strap-On Dildo?

If you have a regular strap-on, place the dildo on the opening and wear the harness on your waist. Adjust the straps for a custom fit and get down to action. For a strapless strap-on, direct the pony into the vagina and use your Kegel muscles to clench onto the pony. You might have to tweak the positioning slightly to find one that gives you more control.

How To Store a Strap-On Dildo?

Once clean, store the dildo in a clean, damp-free space away from direct sunlight. If you don’t have a sex toy case, use a drawer – just ensure you line it with a cotton cloth and seal any open spaces to keep off dust.

Can You Use Strap-On Dildos in The Shower?

Yes. You can use strap-on dildos in the shower as long as it’s made from non-porous silicone and the harness is from a water-friendly design, you should be good.

Pro Tip: Ensure motorized (vibrating/squirting) models are waterproof before using them in the shower.

How To Make a Strap-On Dildo?

Clone-A-Willy is our favorite DIY strap-on dildo solution. The kit allows you to remake your partner’s penis with a few steps. Besides presenting a bonding opportunity for couples, the molding kit comes with a vibrating bullet for an extra punch of pleasure. You can read more on how to make a DIY strap-on in this extensive guide.

How Much Is a Strap-On Dildo?

Like other sex toys, strap-on dildos are priced based on the materials, design, size, and specific bells and whistles. You can get an entry-level model for as little as $30. The mid-level models cost between $50 – $70, with attractive features like silicone material and a curved shaft for precise stimulation. The top-tier models cost over $100, but you should expect a strapless design, remote control, and other bells and whistles. You can read more about strap-on prices in this article.

How To Get Smell Off Strap-On Dildo?

A foul smell happens when strap-on dildos are improperly cleaned and disinfected. And especially for anal sex toys, ensure you wash them immediately after use and regularly submerge them in boiling water for 3 – 5 minutes.

For the persistent smell, soak the toy in 1/3 of a cup of white vinegar and 2/3 of warm water mix for 30 minutes. The acetic acid in white vinegar wipes off the odor, leaving you with a pleasant-smelling sex toy.

Pro Tip: Rinse the dildo with clean water to wipe off the faint vinegar smell.

Primary Sources

1. Lotney, K. The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and Men. Cleis Press. (2000).

2. Lehmiller, J. Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Pegging. Sex And Psychology. (2021, October 7).

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Rachel is a clinical sexologist with a focus on LGBTQ+ and BIPOC issues. Originally from Texas, she loves sushi, white wine, and spending time with her partner Jessica. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Yahoo.com, Women's Health, Healthline, Glamour, and MindBodyGreen.
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