Building a sex swing looks doable but it’s extremely dangerous because of the many accident and injury risks. You must have extensive knowledge about material and assembly to build something 100% safe which most people don’t have. So no bueno.
Instead of risking your and your partner’s well-being with a subpar device, we strongly recommend purchasing a reliable and reasonably priced product like Wild Side, which is available for only $119.00. It may seem steep but it’s a reasonable price to pay for your welfare.
However, we understand that not everyone has access to adult stores where they live, so we have listed some semi-safe suggestions below for those who choose to try them at their own risk.
- You must be aware of the risks before hacking together DIY BDSM furniture, especially when using everyday household items. To minimize the likelihood of accidents, we recommend using professionally tested and manufactured products, which not only provide protection for you and your partner but also ensure a safer and more enjoyable experience.
- But we understand that purchasing branded products may not always be possible. Therefore, we have put together a list of semi-safe alternatives below that you can try at your own risk.
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Why You Should Trust Us?
With over a decade of experience with BDSM toys and bondage play, Sandra Larson is a highly knowledgeable and skilled expert. She is widely respected and trusted by individuals who are interested in exploring various forms of sensory play, including the use of BDSM sex toys such as feather ticklers.
In this particular article, Sandra collaborated closely with Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., our lead sexologist, to identify the safest options for creating a homemade sex swing. She also thought the guides from Reddit users blueprintGS, Own-Pea-8212, and Direct-Caterpillar77 were helpful, and they are included below. With their combined efforts, you can trust that whatever you create will be as safe as possible.
What Is a DIY Sex Swing?
A DIY sex swing is a homemade version of a sex swing that people make using various materials such as ropes, straps, chains, and more. Someone with the proper sewing and materials skills can build a decent model that they can use in certain scenarios under close supervision. The primary motivation for people to build their own is to save money or customize them to their unique sexual needs.
Note: Above is an example of a commercial sex swing: Screamer Dual Hook. It was the highest-rated model in our review with our testers loving its width, fully adjustable straps, foot straps, neck support, and very safe dual hook system. You can read our full sex swing review here.
Is Making a Homemade Sex Swing Safe?
No. Making your own sex swing is not safe. While it may seem like a fun and easy DIY project, there are several risks that we will address in this article. First and foremost, improperly constructed sex swings can lead to serious injuries, such as falls, fractures, and even paralysis. We strongly advise against attempting to make your own unless you are a skilled engineer or carpenter with experience in designing and building said equipment.
Some Semi-Safe Ideas
With a little creativity and some basic materials, you can create a semi-safe sex swing that could be a decent temporary solution until you get your hands on a commercial product. Let’s start with this nifty solution I found on Reddit:
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1. Reddit Version 1
Reddit username blueprintGS put this hack together using iron pipe fittings, a chain, reducing tees, a cross fitting, pipe nipples, cotter pins, quick links, heat shrink, nylon webbing straps, safety glasses, tapping oil, a pry bar, a vise, large screwdrivers, a drill with a 3/8″ bit, a round file, zip ties, and thread locker or anti-seize.
To start, cut the chain into five-foot lengths with 51 links each. Drill 3/8″ diameter through holes with a 3/8″ drill and apply tapping oil through both walls in the center of each reducing tee. Clean off any burrs with a round file. Install one tee onto each pipe nipple, creating permanent connections. Optionally, cut heat shrink into four equal 2 ft lengths and shrink them onto each pipe nipple, trimming the ends as desired.
Next, install the cross-fitting onto one of the nipples, ensuring a tight fit perpendicular to the axis of the reducing tee, and mark this piece for future reference. Install each assembly to the cross, achieving a tight but not permanent fit, and mark the “top” of the cross and each reducer for easier reassembly.
Find the exact middle of each chain (26th link from either end) and mark it for future assembly. Pass each chain through a different reducing tee and slide the cotter pin through the tee, intersecting the marked link. Close the spring hasp on the end of the pin.
To finish, attach a 3/8″ quick link to the “top” end of each chain pair, ensuring a secure fit without damaging the threads. Pass the 1/2″ quick link through the two 3/8″ links and tighten all threaded connections. The load will now be symmetrically distributed from one to two to four members, with the lifting angle about 45 degrees from horizontal, and the largest link sitting right above the center cross union.
After hanging the frame, attach your sling and perform testing to ensure stability and comfort. We also recommend using suspension cuffs or grab handles for bondage, sling straps, and a separately built or procured anchor point.
Source: Reddit
2. Reddit Version 2
Next, we have this dungeon-inspired swing by Redditor Own-Pea-8212. Here’s how they did it:
Here are the materials they used:
- Insulation materials (specific to soundproofing)
- Central air and heating system
- Home gym squat rack
- Heavy-duty chains
- 1″ eyebolts
- 60″ 4K TV
- Wall mount for TV
- Canon 4K camera
- Dual microphones
- Indirect lighting fixtures
- Acoustical treatment materials (e.g., foam panels or diffusers)
- Anchoring points like eye bolts, D-rings/O-rings, or hooks (s hook works the best)
- Mounting hardware (screws, bolts, brackets, etc.)
- Electrical wiring and connectors (for TV, camera, and lighting)
- Tools (drill, screwdriver, wrench, etc.)
- Safety equipment (gloves, goggles, etc.)
Step-by-Step guide:
- You need to design and plan the layout. Consider the available area and the features you want to include. Take measurements to ensure everything would fit properly.
- Install insulation materials on the walls to enhance privacy and reduce sound transmission. Choose a soundproofing material specifically designed for this purpose.
- To ensure that everything is comfortable, put a central air and heating system. Consult with a professional HVAC technician to determine the appropriate equipment for your needs.
- Get a robust squat rack and position it in the center of the room (we love products from Marcy Pro). You can use heavy-duty chains and 1″ eyebolts to suspend the bed from the squat rack securely. Make sure the eyebolts are properly anchored and capable of supporting you and your partner’s weight.
- For entertainment purposes, mount a 60″ 4K TV on one of the walls. Be sure that the TV is securely attached and positioned at an optimal viewing angle. You can also install a Canon 4K camera on a wall mount to capture your activities. Placed the camera in a suitable location for recording and attach dual microphones to the rack directly above the bed to capture audio effectively.
- To create a desirable ambiance in the space, you can get indirect lighting fixtures. Consider using dimmable lights to adjust the lighting intensity according to your preferences.
- Enhance the sound quality and acoustics of the room by adding acoustical treatments such as foam panels or diffusers. Strategically placed it to optimize sound absorption.
- Finally, install multiple anchoring points on the ceiling to accommodate various bondage or suspension equipment. Make sure these points are robust and securely fastened to withstand the intended loads.
Source: Reddit
3. Reddit Version 3
For those of you who are looking to build a more advanced sex swing stand, this version by Reddit user Direct-Caterpillar77 might be right down your alley. This one requires more materials and work hours than the previous versions, but the result will be a swing that can handle more weight and movement than the previous models.
To start, locate the hole you made using a wire coat hanger and use a hole saw to cut a hole of the exact size needed for your spacer or washers. Then, secure a 4×4 between the joists using a joist hanger and screws on both sides.
Next, place a longer 4×4 across 4 or 5 beams directly over the other 4×4 so that the holes line up. Alternatively, you can stack 2x4s to avoid having a gap. After that, drive a 12″ welded eye hook through both 4x4s and secure them with a nylon washer sandwiched between two steel washers. Use several washers to fill the gap made by the hole saw in Step 1.
Here are the materials they used:
- Wire coat hanger
- Hole saw
- 4×4 lumber
- Joist hanger
- Screws
- 12″ welded eye hook (s hooks work as well)
- Nylon washer
- Steel washers
Source: Reddit
4. Reddit Version 4 (Suspension DIY Sex Sling With Leather Harness)
To create a custom leather harness for a suspension sling, you can follow these steps by Redditor blueprintGS:
- Design phase: Adapt the chosen design to suit your preferences or your partner’s needs. Make adjustments to dimensions, strap placement, or other elements as necessary.
- Leather cutting: Lay out the leather material on a flat surface. Use a measuring tape and pencil or marker to mark the required dimensions according to the chosen design. Cut the leather pieces carefully using a cutting knife.
- Strap assembly: Arrange the leather pieces according to the design layout. Apply leather adhesive to the overlapping sections of the straps for added strength. Press the straps firmly together and allow the adhesive to dry according to the manufacturer’s instructions.
- Stitching: Use an awl to create stitching holes along the edges of the overlapping straps. Thread a stitching needle with a suitable thread (e.g., waxed nylon thread). Stitch the straps together using a suitable stitching technique (e.g., saddle stitch). Ensure the stitches are tight and secure for optimal durability.
- Attachment points: Determine the locations for attaching D Rings and other hardware. Use a leather punch or awl to create holes for the attachment points. Attach the D Rings securely using appropriate rivets or stitching.
- Finishing touches: Trim any excess leather and ensure smooth edges. Apply leather conditioner or finish to protect the leather and enhance its appearance.
Note: The Stockroom’s Leather Sling (product above) is an example of a commercial sex sling. If you want to skip all the tedious steps in making one, you’ll be glad to know that this sex sling has a 4-point design that makes it the most sturdy sex sling we’ve used. And you can either hang it on the ceiling or pair it with a 4-point sling stand.
By following these steps, you can create a decent leather harness for a suspension sling. Remember to prioritize safety and consult professionals if needed.
Source: Reddit
Not Safe at All Ideas
We strongly advise against building a sex swing using the materials or methods below. They are not only unsafe but can also cause serious injuries.
Using Cheap or Unstable Material: You must use high-quality materials as cheap or flimsy alternatives can lead to serious injuries. The materials must support the weight of the person using the swing and withstand the force of movement during heavy use.
Pro tip: Instead of risking your partner’s help, buy the Fetish Fantasy Deluxe instead. The two-leg stirrups and arm straps ensure the receiving partner is secure while propping up their body so you can easily access the genitals.
Using Unstable Structures: Creating a sex swing using unstable foundations such as a makeshift frame or a pull-up bar is not safe. These structures are not designed to hold the human body weight and can easily topple over, causing severe injuries. Most people tend to forget that a makeshift frame or a pull-up bar can only support the weight of one person
How to Use Homemade Sex Swings?
Using homemade sex swings can be challenging, so you must know the weight limit of the materials AND pray that your sewing skills won’t fail you. With that PA out of the way, here’s a guide on how you can use it.
- First, make sure the swing is properly installed and secured. If you’re using a door swing, make sure it’s fastened to a sturdy and secure door frame. If you’re using a stand or other type of support system, it must be stable and won’t tip over.
- Next, adjust the straps to the desired height and angle. It will take some trial and error to find the perfect position, but please take your time and make sure it’s comfortable and safe.
- Once the swing is in the right location, test it using a non-human object like a watermelon (our go-to method here at My Sex Toy Guide)
- After it’s been properly tested, have one partner sit in the swing while the other assists with getting them into position. This may involve lifting or adjusting the body to find the right angle and position.
- Once both partners are comfortable and in position, you can start to experiment with different positions and movements.
Remember to always communicate with your partner and start slow if you’re new to sex swings. If you want to take things up a notch, you can also try some hot and exciting positions we listed in our sex swing position guide.
Why Is It Better to Buy a Commercial Product?
Sadly, there are many unsafe DIY methods online. While they seem like a great way to save money, there are several reasons why it’s better to invest in a real sex swing. Here are just a few of them:
Safety
Commercial sex swings are designed and tested to ensure strong leg supports and adequate numbers of straps to safely support the weight of one or more people. Homemade versions, on the other hand, lack the necessary straps to hang the device properly. Finding the right measure and length for each material is going to be tedious so it’s better to leave it to the professionals.
If weight is your concern, you must choose a product that supports the plus-sized crowd. The Whipsmart Pleasure Swing (product above) can support 450 lbs, making it the sturdiest sex swing we’ve reviewed. However, the spring only supports 200 lbs, so you need to replace it with a stronger one if you want to go over 200 lbs.
Quality
Another benefit of buying a commercial product is the material quality. Legit sex swings are made with high-quality materials that are designed to withstand regular use and provide maximum comfort. Making a homemade alternative that will only last after a couple of sessions is not worth the time and effort. Investing for longevity will always be the way to go for any type of sex toy.
Versatility
Real sex swings are designed to be versatile and offer a range of positions and angles for maximum pleasure. They often come with adjustable straps and chains to allow you to customize the height and angle of the swing to suit your needs. Homemade versions may not offer the same level of versatility and are limited in the positions and angles they can accommodate.
I highly recommend Pipedreams Fetish Fantasy Series Yoga if you want a versatile sex swing. The good news: the number of positions you could try will blow your mind. The bad news: it’s not for everyone, you must be in top shape to balance yourself on the single-hook yoga series. It takes much practice and, more importantly, great core strength and body flexibility.
Sandra
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