If you’re new to the sex toy world, you might be overwhelmed by using a bullet vibrator. Although they are the perfect first toy, using them for the first time may be daunting.
No sweat! This article will explain the ins and outs of how to use a bullet vibrator for the first time to get you on your way to better sex.
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What Is a Bullet Vibrator?
Bullet vibrators are small vibrators designed for external stimulation. They are often used for clitoral stimulation, but you can use them on other erogenous zones. In addition, you can use them for solo sex or partnered play.
As they are one of the most popular sex toys, many variations exist. Some are battery-operated or rechargeable, some come with a remote control to spice up partnered sex, and some can even sync the vibrations to the music you are listening to.
How Does a Bullet Vibrator Work?
A bullet vibrator works in the same way as other vibrators. They contain an internal motor that vibrates and is controlled via external controls. They often feature a slanted tip, which sits on the clit to provide additional stimulation. Many people use them as a form of foreplay or to achieve orgasm.
Who Are They For?
It probably goes without saying, but bullet vibrators are best for clit owners who love a bit of clitoral stimulation. They also make perfect sex toys for those new to the sex toy game, as they are often small, inconspicuous, and easy on the wallet.
Because of their small design, they are a perfect on-the-go vibrator. You can pop them in your bag if you’re going out on a date or take them with you traveling. Many models are designed to look discreet, some even looking like lipstick, making it the perfect toy to own if you’re worried about someone accidentally seeing it.
What To Think About When Buying A Product
There are many bullet vibrators to choose from, which can seem daunting when purchasing one for the first time, so you may want to consider the following factors before purchasing your first vibe.
Material
Not all bullet vibes are created equally. When shopping for a bullet, you want to make sure that it is safe to use on your body. Toys made from silicone or body-safe plastic are nonporous, meaning bacteria cannot easily live on the material.
Beware of buying very cheap toys, as they are often made of cheap materials that are not safe to use on the body.
If you want a bullet vibe with body-safe material, we recommend Lovense Exomoon.
Settings
Most bullets have different vibration speeds and patterns. If you’re buying your first bullet, I’d suggest purchasing one with multiple vibration speeds so you can find one that is just right for you.
The clit varies in sensitivity from person to person, so having a vibe with multiple settings is the best way to ensure it’ll work for you.
Size
Bullet vibrators are small in nature, making them perfect for storing away inconspicuously or for taking on vacation with you. They come in various shapes and sizes but generally range from 3 to 5 inches.
Design
Most products are designed in the shape of a bullet, hence their name. They vary in design, but most are cylindrical with a pointed tip for clitoral stimulation. Some bullets are designed with discretion in mind, looking like lipstick, while others have rabbit-like ears for added stimulation.
If you like a fancy design, we recommend Hot Octopuss Amo.
Travel Lock
Some bullets, like this one, come with a travel lock, allowing you to lock the toy while traveling so it doesn’t accidentally turn on. While there is no shame in owning a sex toy, having the ability to lock it is handy, as having a vibrating suitcase may not go down so well with airport security.
Power Source
Most bullets are rechargeable and come with a USB charging cord. However, there are a few that are battery-operated.
I’d suggest purchasing a rechargeable vibe to save you the hassle of buying multiple batteries.
Sound Level
One of the best things about bullet vibes is their sound level. Most of them are very quiet and cannot be heard through a closed bedroom door, but this varies. Some sex toy websites state the sound level of their toy, but most do not.
If you’re worried about sound, I’d suggest leaving your bullet in your bedroom on the highest setting and closing the door to see if you can hear it from outside your room.
If you need a silent bullet vibrator, we recommend We-Vibe Tango X.
Budget
Bullet vibes are some of the cheapest sex toys on the market, ranging from around $10-$150. More affordable models tend to be battery-powered and have limited settings. The higher-range models tend to be made from silicone and have multiple settings and powerful motors.
It’s best to research before buying one, as many of the cheaper models are made from materials that are not body-safe.
Still not sure what product to buy? No sweat! We have an article with all the best bullet vibrators.
How To Use a Bullet Vibrator Solo?
1. Wash It First
Although most bullet vibrators are made from nonporous materials to help keep bacteria out, it’s still essential you wash your sex toys before and after any use. The vagina is home to many healthy bacteria, which helps maintain its pH balance. Introducing an unclean sex toy to the vagina or vulva may interrupt the pH balance, which could lead to an infection.
To clean your vibrator, use warm water with a non-fragrant antibacterial soap or a sex toy cleaner. Toys with motors, like the bullet vibe, cannot be boiled on the stove or put in the dishwasher.
2. Make Sure It’s Fully Charged
There’s nothing more of a vibe kill than a dead vibrator, especially just before you’re about to orgasm. Most devices come precharged, but to increase the battery life, it’s best to fully charge it before use.
3. Learn How The Controls Work
There are many different types on the market, all with various controls, so it’s essential that you get familiar with your particular vibe before putting it to use. Most bullet vibes have options to increase or decrease the intensity of the vibrations, while others can change vibration patterns which create different sensations.
Getting familiar with these settings will ensure that you have a pleasurable time.
4. Try It On Other Body Parts First
The body has many erogenous zones, which are a perfect place to start if you’re new to sex toys. These zones have heightened sensitivity and may cause sexual arousal when stimulated.
Start by using the vibe on your inner thighs, nipples, or even your belly button before moving on to the clitoral hood. Other erogenous zones include the neck, ears, and butt, which differ for everyone.
What may be an erogenous area for someone else may not be one for you, so start exploring your own body and see what turns you on.
5. Find a Comfortable Place and Create a Good Mood
It may sound contrived, but setting the right mood helps your body relax, heightening your masturbation experience. It’s hard for most people to focus on their pleasure if they’re worried somebody may walk in.
So make sure you lock the bedroom door, or find some time alone, light some candles, and pop on some music that’ll get you in the mood.
6. Add Lube
There’s one motto I stand by when it comes to any sex, “the wetter, the better,” and this is true for solo sex. Applying lube to the toy and your clitoris will allow the vibe to slide around your clitoris and vulva and assist you in finding the sweet spot.
Pro Tip: If you have a silicone toy, it’s best to use water-based lube, as this will not damage the silicone.
7. Hold It at Different Angles
Sex is all about exploration and finding what feels good to you. When using a bullet vibe for the first time, get creative and try different angles across your clit and vulva. You may find that using the vibe horizontally or at an angle increases stimulation as more of the vibrator is on your clit, compared to using just the tip.
8. Try Different Speeds and Patterns
Once you have found an angle you like, start exploring the different vibration speeds and patterns.
Start on the lowest setting and work your way up. You may find that the highest setting provides an intense stimulation that may not feel comfortable to you, particularly in highly sensitive areas like the clitoris. This is fine; play around with all the settings until you find something that feels good. The goal doesn’t need to be to orgasm but to have fun while exploring the body.
9. Try Different Positions
While laying down on your back may be the most comfortable position for many people, there are many other positions that people find stimulating during masturbation.
Try using your vibe in a doggy-style position or even standing up.
10. Use It in The Shower (If Waterproof)
For even more pleasure, use a bullet in the shower or bath! The water creates extra stimulation on your skin, heightening your experience. The bathroom is a great place to use sex toys if you share your house with others, as it is often one of the only rooms with a lock.
The sound of running water can also drown out the vibration sound. But make sure your toy is waterproof before trying this out!
We recommend Lovense Exomoon or the Amo for waterplay.
11. Insert It into Other Toys
Some bullets have attachments you can put on top of the sex toy for added stimulation. There are many attachments to choose from, including a rabbit-styled attachment that provides both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.
Shop around to see if there are any attachments available for your vibe.
How To Use a Bullet Vibrator With a Partner?
If you’re looking to ramp up the pleasure during partnered sex, then introducing a vibrating bullet might do the trick.
As they are small in nature, you can use them in many different ways. Use them during foreplay as a massaging tool, taking turns massaging one another. They can also be used during oral sex by putting the toy on your clit while your partner goes down on you.
In addition, you can also stimulate the penis by placing it on the head of the penis or using it as a tool to increase pleasure while stroking the penis with your hands.
Many people also like using them for added clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex or as a tool for mutual masturbation.
You can read more about vibrators and couple sex here.
Safety Guidelines
Most bullet vibes are not designed to be used for internal stimulation, as they are pretty small and can’t easily be used for penetration.
It’s crucial that you do not use them anally, as they do not have a flared base, which means that they could get lost up your butt, which would require a trip to the hospital.
Cleaning and Aftercare
You must wash your sexual bullet before and after each use. Generally, you can do this using antibacterial soap with warm water or a sex toy cleaner. However, each vibe is different, and it is best to read the cleaning instructions provided with your toy.
Once you have cleaned the toy, make sure you leave it to dry before storing it somewhere free from dust, moisture, and direct sunlight.
Wrapping Up
Bullet vibrators are the perfect toy for those who are starting to explore their sexuality and want something small and discreet but powerful enough to help with orgasms. Their small nature makes them perfect for traveling or storing away from prying eyes. These toys are also perfect to use with a partner for foreplay or during penetration.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to use a vibrating bullet!
Rhiannon
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