More women are learning about the truly orgasmic pleasure that can be accessed through clit stimulation, especially using clit vibrators. Buying up a vibrator for solo use can be the opportunity many women need to get better acquainted with their specific anatomy. To help our readers get started, this article gives all the information they need before purchasing their new toy.
- A clit vibrator is a sex toy that stimulates the clitoral area. They are usually smaller and focus on offering an assortment of speed and vibration patterns to help vagina owners find what gives them the most sexual pleasure.
- When shopping online for a clitoral stimulator, consider the different types, materials, vibrations, sizes, sound levels, comfort, and extra features such as app control.
- If you’re new to clit stimulations, using lots of lube and starting slow is essential. You should also follow the manufacturer’s safety guidelines, learn how the controls work, and start on a lower setting.
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What Is A Clit Vibrator?
Clit vibrators are a kind of toy that vibe makers create specifically to stimulate the nerves in the clitoris. Because of this, they’re generally small in size and focus on offering an assortment of speed and vibration patterns to help women find what provides the most pleasure.
What Is The Clitoris?
The clitoris is the little bean in the top center of your vagina. Although it might not look like much, this little spot packs a ton of pleasure since it is home to 8,000 nerve endings.
When stimulated correctly, the clitoris is an often overlooked part of the genitals that can unleash the potential for more pleasurable lovemaking and even climax for some women who struggle to reach a big-O.
How Does A Clitoral Vibrator Work?
Most vibrators work in more or less the same way. The buzzing sensation helps to increase blood flow and makes the nerve endings more sensitive to the touch.
This increase in sensation helps to enhance sexual pleasure and can even help women who struggle to reach their big-O climax more quickly and easily, even during partnered sex.
Who Are They For?
Clitoral vibrators are a great starter vibe since they are simple, easy to use, and perfect for the exploration process every newbie must go through to figure out which regions feel extra yummy for them.
Beginners aside, this vibe style is excellent for any of the many women who prefer clitoral stimulation over penetration. It can even be used by women who need a combination of the two to reach climax.
What To Think About When Buying A Product
The Type
1. Wand Vibrators
Originally created to be a back massager, magic wands plug directly into the wall and, because of this, offer an intensity that other battery-operated toys can’t match. So, if you’re looking for a lot of power, a wand is for you.
The long handles on this vibe allow you to reach your sensitive nooks and crannies easily, though it also makes them bigger and unsuitable for travel.
Magic Wand Rechargeable is our favorite wand vibrator, and you can read our review here.
2. Bullet and lipstick
The most basic type, bullet vibes are small enough to be handheld and present a range of vibration and speed settings that can pack a punch. Their simplicity and ease of use make them perfect for beginners.
Lipstick vibrators are bullets indistinguishable from a tube of lipstick, perfect for anyone looking for a vibe you can hide from prying eyes. They are ideal if you want something discreet and portable to bring on your travels.
The downside with bullet and lipstick vibes is they have no handles; therefore, some vibrations can transfer to the palm and fingers, potentially making them numb.
Our favorite bullet vibrator is We-Vibe Touch X, and you can read our review here.
3. Rabbit
Rabbit vibrators combine a penetrative g-spot toy with ‘rabbit ears’ to simultaneously stimulate all the best places. They are perfect for vagina owners that want to experience dual orgasms, achieve extended orgasms, or have trouble orgasm. One rabbit we love is Lelo Soraya Wave (detailed review here).
4. Clit sucking toys
These toys are created to deliver a unique type of stimulation through pressure waves that mimic oral sex, perfect for anyone who can never get enough head. In addition, most products, especially from the Womanizer brand, employ air-sucking technology, making them great for anyone who wants sensations other than standard vibrations.
We have tested all oral models on the market, and the best-performing product is Womanizer Premium 2. You can read our review here.
Material
Most vibes are made using silicone since it is a non-porous material (doesn’t harbor bacteria) that’s gentle on the skin and soft enough not to absorb too many of the yummy sensations destined for the clitoris. Another material you sometimes see used to make medium and high-end toys is ABS plastic.
When shopping for a new toy, it’s best to double-check the packaging to ensure that you purchase a toy created from one of these materials and not a lower-grade rubber polymer. If you need help picking a body-safe vibrator, we recommend We-Vibe Touch X or Tango X.
We also recommend buying a waterproof model since they are more versatile. Bring them into the shower or bathtub for some exciting aquatic play!
Settings
If you’re big on settings, look for a new toy that’s on the pricier side, as these often offer the most variety. For others, diversity is less important as they prefer to find that one speed and vibe pattern perfect for them and hang out there.
Having many settings is especially important if you have a sensitive clitoris or vulva. Many products only have one setting (strong!), and you want to be able to dial down the power if it’s too intense.
Frequent travelers should buy a model with a travel lock. You don’t want the clitoris vibrator to turn itself on in the airport security line, do you?
Size
Most toys designed for clitoral stimulation are on the smaller side. They range from the size of a tube of lipstick to around as big as the palm of your hand, except for the magic wand, which has a long handle since it was initially created to be a back massager.
If you need help picking a small, discreet clit vibrator, I recommend Lovense Exomoon (detailed review here).
Design
Clit vibes are designed to direct sensation — licking, vibrating, stroking, or a combination of the three — to the clit, and because of this, they are generally small and somewhat discreet.
Some products are designed to provide broader clitoral stimulations, like LELO Sila Cruise, while others, like LELO Dot, provide pinpoint stimulations. Pering what stimulation you prefer is worthwhile before purchasing a product.
If you’re unsure whether you like broad or pinpoint stimulations, I recommend buying Dame Fin, which has two surface areas to experiment with. You can read more about Dame Fin here.
Comfort
Not all vulva owners enjoy the sensation of a vibrator, although on a low speed and simple vibration pattern, most people can find something that offers enough pleasure to make them cum.
Sound Level
Compared to other sex toys, which require a big and powerful motor, a clit vibrator is on the simple side. Because of this, they’re discreet and generally quiet enough to be used in apartments with thin walls. If the volume concerns you, look for a toy with a special ‘whisper quiet’ setting.
App/Remote Control
Most toys, including clit vibes, have a remote-controlled version or can be accessed via an app. This feature allows you to hand the fate of your big-O over to your partner and can be especially fun for long-distance lovers.
Lovense Products have the best app control functionality today, and we especially love Exomoon or the Domi 2 wand.
Budget
You can find simple bullet-style clit vibes for at little as $10. Most of these have a single speed and vibration pattern, but often this is more than enough. Toys offering a sucking or massaging function are generally more expensive, ranging from $100 to $175.
One budget toy we love is Desire Luxury from Lovehoney. You can read our comprehensive review of it here.
Read Reviews
If you’re not in the habit of checking online reviews for products you’re considering purchasing, you really should be. Customer reviews are the best place to look for utterly unbiased information about how a product performs and whether it’s work picking up.
You can find more clit vibrator models in our main article.
How To Use A Clit Vibrator Solo?
1. Wash It First
Before using your vibrator, you want to make sure that you wash it thoroughly with warm water and a bleach-free soap that is soft on the skin.
2. Make Sure It’s Fully Charged
Very few things in life are more disappointing than having your vibrator die in the middle of a solo session. For this reason, it’s a good idea to keep some extra AAAs available for battery-operated toys and pay attention to the battery level of USB rechargeables.
It’s also important to note that plugging in your vibrator too often or keeping it plugged past charge can destroy your battery life, so try to use your toy until it’s as close to dead as possible.
3. Learn How The Controls Work
From self-heating to match your body’s temperature to massaging your vulva to orgasmic perfection, clit vibes are full of surprises. To figure out the unique features of your toy, you can either run through your toy’s different settings with it off your body or learn on the job. Though the latter might keep you from discovering your toy’s true potential.
4. Create A Good Mood & Atmosphere
If you want to experience the maximum pleasure possible from your toy, you must create an environment where you can fully relax.
Take a few extra minutes to light candles, put on a sensual playlist, and make your bed cozy. You could also try taking a bath before beginning your session to get you feeling extra warm and relaxed.
5. Add Lube
For silicone vibrators, it’s best to use water-based lube or a silicone-water hybrid since oil and silicone lube can destroy your toy over time.
6. Use It On Other Erogenous Zones First
Up to 95% of women have extragenital erogenous zones, which means spots aside from the clitoris and vaginal canal that excite sexual sensations when stimulated.
These spots include breasts, lips, ears, neck, and the booty, and stimulation of these spots both before and during lovemaking can benefit women who find it challenging to climax while intimate.
Masturbating with a vibrator lets you explore these spaces alone, so you can guide your partner in the right direction later.
7. Start On A Low Setting
Starting your session with your toy at a low speed and intensity can allow you to slowly coax your body into climax.
This tip is especially important for women who find vibrators too intense or uncomfortable on their sensitive lady parts. For these ladies, a lower speed and simple vibration setting will probably offer the most pleasurable experience.
8. Try Edging
Edging is using a toy to bring your body to the brink of climax before reducing pressure to ease sensation or completely stopping and then starting again.
This process can be done as many times as you can handle, and when used correctly, it will help you experience mouth-watering, high-intensity orgasms.
9. Combine It With An Internal Toy
Not every woman can reach their big-O without clitoral stimulation; the same goes for internal play. Suppose you’re somebody who loves penetrative sex. In that case, you could try simultaneously using an internal toy with your clit vibe or pick up a rabbit vibrator designed to provide yummy sensations everywhere you want.
10. Try Different Positions
Enjoying a variety of positions doesn’t have to be limited to partnered sex. Next time you use your vibrator, try switching things up to include time spent on your back, bent over in doggy, or for some extra-steamy fun, hold your vibe against your vagina while you lay on your belly and grind against it.
11. Pause Or Stop If You Feel Uncomfortable
Clit vibes aren’t for everyone, and the stimulation can sometimes be too much, even in the lowest setting. If your vibe is causing you pain or discomfort, it’s best to take a break.
Discomfort that lasts for days after your last session could indicate a more serious problem that is best remedied by a visit to a healthcare professional.
How to use them with a partner?
Clit vibrators are perfect to use during mutual masturbation. You can also use them during sex — where either of you holds it against the clitoris — during penetrative play to help give you an extra-intense orgasm.
Another spicy option is bringing your toy into the bath or shower, though if you’re planning on enjoying some slippery partner play, make sure your toy is waterproof beforehand.
Aftercare and Maintenance
Properly Wash It
To keep your toy in the best shape possible, you must be diligent about keeping it clean and not storing it before a proper wash. After using it alone or with your partner, cleanse it thoroughly with temperate water and, ideally, a soap specially designed for sex toys.
It’s also important not to share your toys with other women as this can lead to BV and yeast infections and leave you vulnerable to STI transmission.
Properly Store It
To limit the spread of bacteria and keep your toys free of dust and other vagina-irritating particles, it’s important to store each of your vibes in an individual bag or box, separate from your other toys. You can read more about proper sex toy storage here.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Can I Use It Anally?
Up to 40% of hospital visits related to foreign objects becoming lodged in anuses are the result of improper sex toy use.
Most clitoral vibrators don’t offer large enough bases for people to use them for anal play, so it’s safest to use them externally or skip butt-play altogether.
Are Clitoral Vibrators Safe?
Although vibrators often take a bad rap, studies have linked sex toy use to improved sexual function, and over 75% of women report no adverse side effects. Clitoral vibrators are among the simplest in design and are the safest and easiest vibrator option, especially for beginners.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to use a clitoral vibrator.
Rachel
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