8 Best Sex Positions For Small Penis Sizes

Many people wonder about the average penis size, and studies show it might be smaller than you think—about 5.6 inches [2]. This surprises a lot of people who assume it must be larger. Many worry whether their size is enough to satisfy their partner, but most women are actually happy with their partner’s size [1]. So, size isn’t everything. What matters in keeping things exciting in the bedroom is talking openly and trying new things.

To help spice up your sex life, this guide offers several sex positions that work well for everyone. These positions bring you closer to your partner and make every experience enjoyable. With easy-to-follow pictures and instructions, you can try these out and add some fun to your intimate moments. Let’s focus on having a good time together and making the most of what we have.

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1. Cowgirl (With Grinding)

Cowgirl is a good sex position for small penis sizes as it allows your partner to experiment with different angles and grinding motions on the partner’s pubic bone. If your penis is short and thin, grinding creates pressure on the vaginal wall and clitoris, making it more enjoyable for both of you.

Try out a few techniques and see what works best! (Find more girls on top positions here.)

Pro Tip: Reverse cowgirl is an alternative to the normal cowgirl position

How To Do It

1. The penetrating partner is lying flat on the bed.
2. Have the receiving partner sit on top and slide into the position.
3. She then moves her hips backward and forward and then up and down.

 

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2. Missionary (Variation 1)

One element of sexual intercourse is intimacy, and studies show higher levels of intimacy between partners are associated with higher levels of desire and sexual satisfaction. [5] Instead of focusing on what you lack, focus on what you have.

In this missionary variation, you get to be extremely close to your partner, opening the door to many possibilities. You can share a passionate kiss and alternate between stroking her breast and keeping eye contact. These simple gestures can increase bonding, allow you to explore her erogenous zones, and let you forget about your little problem.

Talk about killing three birds with one stone.

How To Do It

1. Have your partner lie down on the bed.
2. Kneel in front of her and put her legs on your shoulders, offering maximum depth.
3. Alternatively, you can try a one-leg variation where she puts one leg on your shoulder and extends the other leg straight.
4. Slide into the position and make good use of your hands.

 

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3. Missionary (Variation 2)

Another Missionary, you might think. Isn’t the key to making up for your size surprising her with crazy sex positions? Yes, indeed. But if you don’t know the basics, there’s no need to master more advanced positions.

This is a variation of the old classic in which your partner brings the knees up and places their feet on your chest. It’s one of the best sex positions for maximum depth while thrusting, something that can be uncomfortable if your partner’s penis is well-endowed (trust me on this).

Luckily, this position helps her hit the right spots, in particular if she adds a vibrator. You get to watch her climax but can’t kiss her. Hot!

How To Do It

1. She lies down on the bed and brings her knees to her chest
2. You lean forward and place her feet on your chest

 

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4. Lying Doggy (Prone)

Big penises can be intimidating, and maybe that’s why women put them on a pedestal. Some vulva owners like being dominated in bed, and a bit of pain adds to the excitement. However, being on the smaller side doesn’t mean you can’t fulfill their fantasies. Your solution is this rear-entry sex position.

Lying Doggy Style, also known as Prone, is all about dominance. Perhaps the reason is your partner can’t see what you’re up to. Or maybe because you can pull her hair or use handcuffs. Additionally, the unique angle facilitates deep penetration, which, in combination with your body weight, can be very arousing. (I have another guide with the best sex position for deep penetration).

Pro Tip: Kiss her neck and do some dirty talking. Imagination is a significant factor in female orgasm, often more than the sensations themselves. Let her fantasize about what you’re going to do next!

How To Do It

1. She lies flat on her stomach while keeping her legs slightly spread.
2. Once you’ve entered her from behind, she can squeeze her feet tightly for a tighter penetration.

 

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5. Pile Driver

Resembling more a yoga pose than a sex position, Pile Driver is both challenging and fun.

It’s similar to the knees to chest Missionary position but requires more bending and a sense of balance. The prize is, however, maximum penetration and possible fails that can turn into lifelong memories.

Sex doesn’t always have to be serious, and having a bit of a laugh can help you forget about insecurities plus increase bonding between you and your partner. It’s a win-win.

Want more challenging positions? We have a guide with the best yoga sex positions!

How To Do It

1. Have your partner lie down and keep her legs straight in a plow yoga pose. Alternatively, she can keep her legs spread sideways.
2. In this position, she keeps her hips elevated and has to be extra careful to maintain balance.
3. Stand above her and slide in and out in a squatting position.
4. Place your hands on her thighs for more support and deep penetration.

 

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6. Tabletop

Do you remember when I mentioned fantasy matters?

Maybe not all women need it to achieve orgasm, but it’s pretty arousing and adds variety to your sex life. And don’t forget your own pleasure – roleplaying is hot (partly because it involves sexy outfits). All you need is imagination and knowing your partner’s likes and dislikes.

Enter Table Top. This standing sex position opens the door to many roleplay possibilities, for example, secretary/boss fantasy (you can find more ideas here). You can come up with pretty much any scenario that involves dominance. Get consent from your partner, but don’t be afraid to show your dominant side.

Pro Tip: She can place a pillow underneath her pelvis to maximize penetration. It might make all the difference!

How To Do It

1. She lies on a flat surface about the same height as your hips.
2. Next, spread her legs slightly and stand between them.
3. Hold her legs and pull her closer every time you move your hips.

 

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7. Use Dame Eva During Sex

Sex is fun because there are so many ways to do it. You can do it in vanilla style and rely on the connection with your partner, but you can also build upon it and try something different. If you want to make sex more enjoyable, consider using Dame Eva. It’s a fun device that focuses on clitoris stimulation, taking your penis size out of the equation.

Did you know that not many women can come from penetration alone? That’s why it’s essential to prioritize clitoral stimulation over worrying about your size. To put this into perspective, recent studies show that most women orgasm 51-60% of the time when there’s clitoral stimulation involved and 21-30% of the time from just penetrative sex. [6]

How To Do It

1. Thanks to flexible wings nestled under the labia, the toy stays in place while giving her extra clitoral stimulation.
2. My favorite position is Cowgirl, but you should experiment with what position works best for you.

 

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8. Use A Penis Extender

If your size bothers you so you can’t focus on your partner’s sexual pleasure, you may consider using a penis extender.

A penis extender is a device to wear during sex to make your penis appear larger. It gives the vagina owner a more filling sensation, but unfortunately, it takes away many sensations for the penis owner. It can also sometimes be painful to wear for extended periods.

Pro Tip: A penis sleeve also works for erectile dysfunction (ED).

References:

[1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/all-about-sex/201411/how-women-really-feel-about-penis-size#:~:text=Recently%2C%20researchers%20at%20UCLA%20and,2%20percent%20would%20prefer%20smaller
[2] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515305373
[3] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2043808719847371
[4] https://www.livescience.com/40192-penis-shame-guys-heads.html
[5] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5987853/
[6] https://blogs.iu.edu/kinseyinstitute/2019/01/24/how-often-do-women-orgasm-during-sex/#:~:text=They%20estimated%20that%20women%20orgasm,the%20time%20during%20unassisted%20intercourse
[7] https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/men-underestimate-penis-size-study-says/article983397/