Our clinical sexologist Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., has compiled the 12 best kinky sex positions for you and your partner to try ASAP! It fulfills a wide range of sexual interests you may have thought about but didn’t know where to start.
By now, you must already master your classic sex positions and use them in bed often. Now, don’t get us wrong – there’s nothing wrong with using good ole’, tried and tested sex positions in the bedroom. But what if we tell you there are effortless and uncomplicated ways to be more adventurous? We’re talking your own deepest and dirtiest fantasies come to life.
If you’ve come here to find ways to satisfy your sex life, you’re in for a treat. Once you and your partner are on the same page to explore kinky sex positions, you’re golden. After all, who doesn’t want their deepest sexual desire to come true?
In this 5-minute read, we’re cracking the most kinky sex positions that are fun, sexy, and not at all complicated. It’s a surefire way to have more than good sex, but some toe-curling, mindboggling sex.
Without further ado, here are 12 kinkiest sex positions that will surely satisfy your dirtiest desires.
Table Of Contents
1. Table Top
You can think of table top as the sexy big brother of your missionary sex position, only it’s way hotter (more hot sex positions here). What makes this sex position so great is it doesn’t require too much flexibility, but it allows for more profound penetrative sex and intense eye contact.
From the name itself, your receiving partner follows the shape of a table top. It makes for some kinky sex because you have the freedom to perform tabletop on any countertop you desire.
Having sex out of your bedroom can make your sex life more exciting, and it’s a simple way to have kinky sex by doing it in new settings. Try your office desk for a student-teacher or boss-secretary roleplay on top of a vanity, dresser, side table, bathroom counter, or kitchen counter. The possibilities are endless!
Here’s how to do it:
- Your partner lies flat on their back at the edge of the table or countertop. They lift their legs above hip height – similar to a mat workout where your back is on the surface and your knees are bent directly above you.
- Your partner should spread their legs wide open for you to stimulate and penetrate them. Keep in mind that their hips are resting right at the table’s edge for better penetration.
- Meanwhile, you’re standing up and holding onto your partner’s hips while penetrating in and out. You can also hold on to the table’s edges for deeper and harder thrusts.
2. Wheelbarrow
The Wheelbarrow is one of the best kinky sex ideas to do if you’re looking for a challenge. It’s daring, strong, and creates a sense of power for the person standing up.
If you’re familiar with the ancient kama sutra text, Wheelbarrow is one of the well-known kama sutra positions for all the right reasons. You’re experiencing a new way of sex while testing your body’s strength.
Here’s how to do it:
- Your receiving partner would first have to get on the ground with their hands and knees. If you choose to do it on the bed – they simply have to bend their upper body down like a forearm plank while their legs are standing straight.
- Then, you would lift them by the ankles and spread them apart – allowing your body to enter.
- Slowly move in closer as you move your arms from their legs up to their hips. Optionally, they can wrap their legs around your waist for stability.
- Bend over and begin penetrating your partner. You can insert your penis all the way in and take it all the way out to tease your partner.
- Your partner can stay on their forearms or stretched arms, whichever way is more comfortable. Having sex in this angle allows you to penetrate deeper into their body.
3. The Caboose
Next up on the kinky sex moves list is a slow, sensual, yet effortless way to achieve an orgasm. If you’re looking to take things slow and feel each movement from your partner – now’s the time. There’s movement from their hips, fingers, and lips. Dirty talk and neck kisses are a big yes while in this position.
Another advantage of the Caboose is you can easily get clitoral stimulation. Don’t be shy and ask your partner to stimulate your clit the way you like while sensually penetrating you.
Here’s how to do it:
- The Caboose is a very straightforward sex position. You simply have to sit on a steady surface (couch, bed, or floor) with your legs stretched in front of you.
- Bend one knee open to allow your partner to sink right into your body. Your partner also gets seated and places their body on yours. It should look like you’re spooning each other but seated.
- With your partner right in front of you, lean forward and enter them. Gently thrust by moving your hips back and forth slowly until you find the right rhythm.
Pro Tip: You have access to their whole body. Make the most out of it by caressing, touching, and kissing your partner all over. This is where dirty talk can really spice things up. Whisper sweet things into their ear to make them more aroused.
4. The Pretzel
You have the Pretzel to thank for mixing things up in the penetration department. It’s a kinky sex position that has the foundation of doggy style, only it’s way more intimate. You’re working your whole body for maximum pleasure.
This sex position is perfect for touching your partner’s body and bringing in a sex toy. If you’re into anal play, the Pretzel is a fantastic sex position for anal penetration.
Here’s how to do it:
- Your partner lies down with their knees bent at a 90-degree angle. They may sit up on their right elbow if that’s more comfortable for them. Otherwise, lying down is a suitable option, almost like they are in a resting side crunch pose.
- They lift their top knee open while you place your knee through the gap created.
- You’re now facing their whole crotch area as you inch closer to them. Wrap your knee around your partner’s bottom leg and enter from there. Gently thrust in and out before increasing your speed or pressure.
- You can take hold of their bent leg and use it to apply more pressure. Caress your partner’s breasts, side body, and touch their clit.
- There’s plenty of room for anal sex while in this position. Lather it up with lube and penetrate from there.
5. The Amazon
This sex position is an excellent position for the vagina owner to assert sexual dominance. They can take control while feeling sexy doing it – as an Amazon goddess does. It’s the ultimate power play position that you could perform more often.
Here’s how to do it:
- Your male partner or giving partner lies on their back with their knees bending over their hips. It’s similar to the table top position, but they’re at the bottom this time.
- Your vulva owner or receiving partner kneels in front of you and spreads her knees apart. She positions her knees outside your hips as she inches closer to you.
- Receiving partner will take your penis and insert it into her vagina as she bounces up and down your body. She can use your legs to thrust deeper into you.
- You can easily find G spot stimulation and continue riding your partner until you feel yourself climax.
You can read more about what is the Amazon sex position in this guide.
6. Lap Dance
The Lap Dance pose is a kinky sex position that’s both erotic and sensual. It’s ideal for building sexual tension with foreplay. You’re turning your partner on to the highest level by making the most out of this sex position.
Pro Tip: You can also perform the lap dance anywhere – in the car, on your porch, or in public.
Here’s how to do it:
- You are seated comfortably – ideally on a chair or couch to support your back.
- Foreplay works best for this position. Your female partner or receiving partner gives you a treat and stripteases, letting your imagination run wild. She can do things to you in the ways you enjoy. If you’re into light bondage, take his hands behind the chair and tie it down.
- When you’re ready, your partner sits on top of you, taking it while facing against you. She can spread her knees apart and place them opposite your thighs if you’re on the couch.
- Your partner can lean back as far or as close to your body. They can move their hips in circles or bounce up and down. You can do some light hair pulling as they arch their back.
7. Pile Driver
This next sex position is a thrilling one more ideal for rough sex (more rough sex positions here). It’s a tad more complicated to get into the inverted position, but it’s incredibly pleasurable. Following these four steps can help you do it safely and pleasurably.
Pro Tip: Before you start, you and your partner should choose a safe word if anything becomes uncomfortable.
Here’s how it goes:
- Use a yoga mat or do it on a carpeted floor to ease the strain on your partner’s spine.
- Your partner lies down on the ground. Using a couch chair or the edge of the bed to support their hips – they will slowly walk their legs up the edge of the bed until they can get their legs over their shoulders.
- You, the giving partner, get into a standing position and squats down to your partner’s opening. You can face them or face away from them if you prefer.
- With every thrust, you can grip onto their ankles to bring their opening closer to you. Doing so allows deeper penetration and more pressure for them until orgasm.
8. Bulldog
The bulldog is one of the kinky sexual positions you can perform to upgrade your doggy style technique. It’s called the bulldog because it’s the top dog position where the penis owner is in charge of the power play this time around.
Let’s get right into it:
- You are in your doggy position, only this time, you bring your legs close together.
- Your giving partner gets down on one knee while the other leg is bent and squats over you.
- Taking your hips, he will then use them to penetrate in and out or bounce back and forth from your vagina or anus.
- The bulldog is a great sex position to bring in some light spanking or dirty talk. Make the most out of this pleasure-packed position by stimulating other erogenous zones. Rough sex is also easily achieved in the bulldog, so keep in mind that your safe word comes in case you need to use it.
9. Missionary With Legs On Shoulder (Seashell)
We’ve said it once, and we’ll say it again – you can never go wrong with missionary. However, if you’ve been returning to the same old missionary position repeatedly, you might as well elevate it to the next level.
The seashell position or missionary with legs on your shoulder is one of the sex positions to add to your sex bucket list.
Here’s how to do it:
- Yogi’s are familiar with the shape of this one, only it’s more sexual and involves a partner to help you get to this pose. You can get to this pose by lying down with your legs straight out.
- Rock your legs as far back up as you can. Then, your partner can help you get your feet behind your head. Of course, if you can place your feet behind your head, get into this position. If not, you may simply place them as close to your ears.
- Your partner gets on his forearms over you and enters from there. He will rock his hips in and out of you for maximum pleasure. There are many intimate ways to keep this sensual, like maintaining eye contact and kissing them all over their body.
10. The Spork
The Spork is also one of the best sex positions discussed in the kama sutra. It’s called the Spork because of how intertwined your bodies are. And it offers plenty of room for full-body contact while you’re both in a relaxed position.
Here’s how to do it:
- Your partner is lying down on their back. They lift the legs and bend them at an angle.
- Meanwhile, move closer to your partner as you are on your side. You can also have one knee bent open. This position should be the same side knee as your partner’s bent knee.
- You are coming between their legs, using their bent leg as leverage to go deeper into them.
- Take it slow and gentle to start. Once you’re relaxed into the position, you can increase speed and pressure.
11. The 69
Oh, the infamous 69 position. It’s a common position to perform for oral sex because you’re both focusing on experiencing pleasure simultaneously. It’s a kinky way to explore each other’s genitals from a new angle. You can practice your oral skills with 69 and experiment with reaching orgasm from oral.
How to do it:
- One partner lies down on the bed comfortably. Typically, the shorter partner lies down while the taller partner is on top.
- Meanwhile, your partner gets on top of you with their head facing your genitals and yours facing theirs.
- Let the oral stimulation begin by licking, sucking, and fingering their genitals. Or, use a combination of both your mouth and your hands. Communication with 69 is openly incorporated in 69 to let each other know how you like to receive oral.
- There are also variations to the 69, like side-by-side 69 or standing 69 if you want to try it out. Side-by-side 69 is when you’re both on your side, body and heads opposite each other. Standing 69, on the other hand, requires a lot of core and upper body strength from the male partner. You can wrap your legs around his neck to perform standing 69 as you dangle on his waist.
12. Face Sitting
Last but certainly not least, we’re talking face sitting for another round of kinky oral sex. It’s sensational to have your vagina eaten out or have your penis sucked. You’re in a dominant position while letting your partner do all the work. What’s not to love?
How to do it:
- Begin by kneeling with your legs spread apart. Your upper body is upright as if you were on a paddleboard. Using your thigh strength, you’re squatting down to hover on your partner’s face.
- You have the option to face whichever direction. As long as your vagina or penis is right on top of your partner’s mouth, you’re doing it right.
- They can start licking up and down or in circles, use their fingers to caress and stimulate you and suck you as much as they desire.
Props You Can Use To Take Things Up To The Next Level
Now that you have the 12 best kinky positions in your belt, you need a little help from your friends. Dildos, butt plugs, or nipple clamps are always a great addition to your kinky play, but here are some other creative ways to use props to achieve your sexual fantasies.
You’d be surprised by how many kinky toys you can use that are not BDSM level but are props you may already have in your closet.
Use Blindfolds
There’s no prop better than introducing a blindfold into your sexual play, a simple object to heighten your partner’s senses, making them excited and unaware of your next move. Taking away their visual senses spikes up their or your sense of touch – which is every bit needed in sex.
You can use a silk scarf or an eye mask to fully cover your partner’s eyes. The darker it is, the more ideal. Once it’s on, extended and sensual foreplay is best for blindfolded partners. It creates sexual tension to make your partner want more and get in the mood for playful sex.
Food
For no reason other than to lick it off your partner’s body, bring food into the mix. What do sex and chocolates have in common? They’re both delicious and sensual.
You have a wide range of options to lick food off your partner. Try whipped cream, melted chocolate, alcoholic shot off their belly button, anything with a light consistency. Some fruits are aphrodisiac foods that you can slice and eat off your partner’s body.
Use Restraints
Using props for restraint builds sexual desire knowing you can’t touch your partner with your arms. It’s a popular edging technique (orgasm control) to tie your partner’s hands behind their head.
If your headboard has gaps, you can tie their hands on the headboard. If not, you can use a heavy chair on the side of the bed and tie up their arms from there. You can go so far as tying up their legs as well. You’re now controlling your partner’s body, doing things you want to do to them. Remember your safe word as they can use it anytime.
Try Temperature Play
Temperature play is a less popular kink but giving your body spikes of hot and cold sensations provokes arousal by using the skin’s neuroreceptors.
The trick with temperature play is to bring things with opposing degrees. Of course, how hot and cold the object is – you should make sure it’s tolerable for your partner. Every person has a different level of tolerance for heat and the cold.
You may use melted food to drip all over their body and proceed with rubbing something cold like ice cubes all over. Take a hot instrument and occasionally brush it over their body before moving on to a cold object.
Do It In Front of A Mirror
If you don’t have a mirror within the parameters of your bed, you need to bring one in right away. Watching you and your partner getting it on in front of a full-length mirror could be the greatest kink you enjoy. It’s a homemade sex tape but in real-time.
This position also means you can have over-the-counter bathroom sex or go somewhere kinky with mirrors all over the ceiling to take things to the next level.
Try Dressing Up
Do you have a favorite character you find sexy? In an episode of Friends, Ross fantasized about Rachel dressing up as Princess Leia from Star Wars. If you have a similar kink to a movie, TV, book character, or something you saw when you watch porn, recreate the costume and use it for role play.
Wrapping Up
Get creative with exotic sex positions and act on your deepest fantasies with my freaky sex ideas. You and your partner can take your sex lives with any of the 12 kinky positions listed in this article. Let yourself loose every once in a while to keep your spark going by exploring new positions and incorporating props you already have at home.
Thanks for reading my super kinky sex positions!
Rachel
LinkedIn | Website | Twitter
- 10 Couch Sex Positions You Can Try Tonight - May 4, 2024
- 7 Easy Sex Positions For Beginners You Should Try - May 3, 2024
- 10 Women On Top Sex Positions When You Want More Control - May 2, 2024
