It’s perfectly normal to run out of bedroom ideas. You might ask yourself, “How do I maintain the spark after 10 years”? The good news is that many sexy sex positions will work to your advantage. Not only do they improve the quality of your sexual escapades, but both partners will also feel good about themselves.
To help you get started, here are 8 hot sexy sex positions focusing on deeper thrusts while still stable enough to satisfy both partners. Our tips will show you how to do them and how to do them correctly, culminating in mind-blowing orgasms!
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Doggy Style
To nobody’s surprise, doggy style tops our list of the sexiest positions. It makes the vagina owner feel sexy on their hands and knees. Of course, not being face-to-face with your partner has its benefits; you can let out a scream, make any facial expression, and move your hips in any way you want to.
As for the penetrating partner, it’s considered a prime position for deeper thrusts without exerting too much effort. And to top it all off, you can make doggy style even sexier by using lube and introducing your favorite sex toy. Once you have all that, here’s how to do it.
How To Do It
- The receiving partner gets down on all fours.
- You can place your chest on the bed and bend your arms.
- You can accentuate your bum by sticking your hips out more. This hack will be even better for penetration while giving your partner a sexy view of your body from behind.
- Your penetrating partner kneels behind you or stands on the floor. Whichever position you choose is up to your preference.
- Hold onto your partner’s hips and enter from there. Rock it back and forth until it feels good for both of you.
- With one hand, rub their clitoris or use your favorite sex toy to give them more pleasure.
Leap Frog
The best thing about leap frog is it effortlessly looks sexy while in a resting pose. You take all the great things about doggy style, but leap frog is a tad better since you can stay in this position much longer.
It also focuses on g-spot stimulation, slower and deeper penetration. And it’s great for anal play if you want to explore it. You can experience rhythmic pleasure while in leap frog without your body being too twisted and turned.
How To Do It
- Like doggy style, the receiver gets down on their hands and knees.
- Rest your chest on the bed or surface below you.
- Two options: You can bend your arms into a T pose or cross your arms and use it as a pillow to rest your head. Choose whichever one is more comfortable.
- Lift your hips and stick your bum out.
- Your partner kneels behind you with his legs between yours, spreading your knees wide open.
- He enters from this position and directly thrusts at a downward angle. Find the rhythm that feels best for you and carry on with it.
The Pretzel
The Pretzel (AKA Pretzel Dip) is a tasty sex position. It’s a highly intimate position for fuller, deeper, and rougher thrusts. This time around, there’s face-to-face contact with your partner to help increase intimacy.
Make use of eye contact, your free hands to explore other erogenous zones in each other’s bodies, and introduce fun and sexy sex toys. I recommend bringing in a pair of handcuffs, a choker, or a dildo for some light BDSM play. You can find more sex positions with handcuffs here.
How To Do It
- The receiving partner lies down and twists their lower body to one side.
- Bend both your knees in front of you and lift your leg open.
- Your partner gets in a kneeling position in between your body.
- They place one knee across your lifted leg. Hold onto the leg and use it to penetrate in and out of your partner slowly.
- If you’re aiming for restraint play, now’s the time to take your kinky toys and put them on your partner.
- Handcuff or bond your partner’s arms above their head (you can also restrain them using your body/arms), put on the choker for light pulling, or bring another dildo for clit stimulation.
Ballet Dancer
What’s hotter than a stand-up sex position you can perform anywhere? You can easily do ballet dancer in places where you want quick rendezvous with someone. The thrill of being caught makes this a sexy position!
So next time you’re in a noisy club bathroom or against a wall in a back alley, try this sex position!
How To Do It
- Stand up with your legs about the same distance as your hips apart.
- Your partner grabs your less dominant leg. Wrap it around their body.
- You should stand on one leg with your partner holding you for stability.
- Arch your back slightly and tilt your head; this angle improves penetration.
- Your penetrating partner enters from there and thrusts his body up and down while your back is against the wall.
- There’s plenty of room for kissing, caressing, or light teasing all over your body with their free hand.
Sea Shell
The sea shell sex position is similar to missionary, only more intense. It has room for rougher penetration, being in an open and accessible position; it’s intimate with complete body contact, and it naturally has clit stimulation, making it even more satisfying.
It’s a great position to make your partner worship your body, a surefire way to make you feel oh-so-sexy.
How To Do It
- Lie on your back and bend your knees.
- Lift your feet in an L-shaped position above your shoulders.
- You can hold onto your ankles if that’s accessible for you. Alternatively, you can hold onto the back of your thighs to spread your legs wider.
- Your partner hovers over your body. They stretch out their arms, placing them right above your shoulders.
- He begins penetrating from here, teasing you by going entirely in and out of you.
- Start to increase the speed and depth of penetration until you both climax.
Lotus
What makes lotus sexy is how easily you can do this seated position and stay for as long as you want. We’re talking about a complete sex session if you wish.
It’s another highly intimate position in our list, being in full-body contact with your partner. You can caress their face and neck, kiss each other, use your free hands to explore each other’s body, and stay in it however long you want.
How To Do It
- You can do this position anywhere in a seat. The penetrating partner sits cross-legged or with their feet flat on the ground.
- They lean back for support as you sit on top. Wrap your legs around your partner’s hips.
- Play around with foreplay before using your hands to guide their penis or strap on inside.
- Sensually move your hips front and back or in a circular motion to make this position even sexier. It should feel really good dipping your hips around and having your partner inside you.
Carry Me
Want to test your strength and get a workout while having sexual pleasure? Carry Me is a daringly sexy sex position you can do in the comfort of your home.
It’s a move you often see in movies or your favorite porno – but it’s achievable with upper body strength and trust from your partner.
How To Do It
- To get into Carry Me, your receiving partner stands before you a few feet away.
- Slowly jump up as you grab their body to hold. They wrap their legs around you for stability.
- Another option is to briskly run towards your partner or get on top of him, sitting down from your bed.
- Then, gently lower your partner to your hips and enter.
- Slightly bend your knees and keep your legs hip distance apart for more stability.
- Bounce them up and down, going all the way.
Lap Dance
Lap dance takes the crown for the sexiest sex position. This visually appealing position makes you look good, and your partner will enjoy how you move your body.
The receiving partner is on top, facing away or directly in front of you; they take control and are free to do anything they want to you as they please.
How To Do It
- Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed.
- You can probably guess a lap dance is more than welcome. Give your partner a sexy show by strip teasing.
- When you’re both ready, you choose to face against or to face your partner.
- Straddle them if you’re facing him and sit on them if you’re facing away.
- Lean back close to their body or arch your back away from them. Place your hands on their knees and bounce up and down.
- They can reach their arm out to rub your clitoris or hold your waist and help you to bounce up and down.
Wrapping Up
It takes minimal effort and a bit of creativity to keep the sexiness alive in the bedroom. Use all the techniques and positions you already know, and have fun. Nothing makes sex hotter than when you’re confident about yourself. You look good doing it and feel good while at it too.
Thanks for checking out my super sexy sex positions!
Rachel
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