6 Best Lesbian Sex Toys [Video Demonstration]

Choosing the right sex toy can deepen intimacy and unlock new pleasure for lesbian couples. Thankfully, the market offers a wide range of thoughtfully designed options to suit different bodies and desires—from finger vibrators and strap-ons to double-ended dildos and couple-focused toys.

After months of testing and research, our team concluded that the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On stands out as the best lesbian sex toy this year. Its elegant, functional design features smooth curves and a flexible neck, making it easy to stimulate both partners simultaneously. The bulbous end offers secure placement and a satisfying sense of fullness, enhancing every thrust and movement. With a powerful motor, multiple settings, and an intuitive control system, this toy checks every box for comfort, connection, and intense shared pleasure.

Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel Sommer’s long-standing sex toy experience makes her one of our most prized experts at My Sex Toy Guide. Since our inception in 2016, the clinical sexologist has spearheaded content production, collaborating with our other sex experts, researchers, technologists, and writers to develop a content plan anchored on sexual health and wellness.

For this article, she interviewed lesbian individuals to learn about emerging trends and must-have sex products. Our team also carried out additional research to identify and address any gaps in the information. We focused on a people-centered approach to ensure the recommendations felt authentic and relatable. Every detail was carefully considered to bring you the most thoughtful and relevant suggestions.

How We Picked the Products

As mentioned above, we used a people-centered approach for this article. After interviewing lesbians, I made a questionnaire to pass on to my fellow sex experts at My Sex Toy Guide. The goal was to get real answers to the hard-hitting questions so that we had solutions that worked for everyone when this guide was finished. I also distributed the review samples and defined the test criteria. These included the following:

• Design: Like other sex toys, the design is the most essential consideration to make when buying a lesbian sex toy. An ergonomic build should simplify the user experience and amplify the sensations. We emphasized features like elongated handles, an easy control interface, tapered shapes, and smooth surfaces. I also advised the team to look into the dimensions, prioritizing user-centered models tailored to specific preferences. For instance, we matched folks after discretion with compact toys, those seeking broad sensations with wider-faced products, and so on. Others included flexibility for precise stimulation and longer shafts for people seeking intense orgasms.
• Stimulations: For stimulation, the more powerful the motor is, and the more settings there are, the better. Products with pulsation mechanisms instead of the loud traditional vibrations got extra points, as did those catering to people with sensitive skin.
• Build Quality: Material played a crucial role in selecting our top picks. We prioritized toys made from high-quality, non-porous materials such as medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic. Craftsmanship was another key factor, especially subtle design elements and thoughtful features that enhance both comfort and sensation during use.
• Ease of Use: Another essential criterion when choosing the best lesbian sex toys was how easy it was to use the product to achieve the desired results. While some products are generally more complicated, the team looked into the risk-to-reward ratio, ensuring that models that were easiest to use and most rewarding got extra points in the ranking system. Bridging the gap between functionality and convenience can be a challenge, but when successful, the results are a beautiful, impactful sex toy.
• Battery Life: Our testers prefer devices with rechargeable batteries, and they also ensured the charge-to-output ratio was favorable. You don’t want a vibrator that takes half a day to charge but drains within 30 minutes, do you? Other considerations included a responsive charging light and power level indicators to prevent getting caught unaware.
• Discreetness: Discreetness is essential to the overall experience, especially for people living in a shared space. While getting a silent device is impossible, numerous whisper-quiet toys do exist. Most are more expensive and use pulsation mechanisms instead of traditional vibrations. For this reason, we went out of our way to include those models to enhance discretion during play.

The decision on the overall top pick ultimately came to the total percentage from the Design (25%), Build Quality (20%), Ease of Use (15%), Discretion (15%), and Stimulations (25%) metrics.

Once the test reports and questionnaire responses were finalized, the team analyzed the findings and used them to draw conclusions. During the 12-day testing bonanza, Shane Davis, Sandra Larson, and I studied and summarized the findings and chose the top picks for the categories. For this reason, we believe this list presents this year’s best sex toys for lesbians.

1. Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why we love Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On:

We’ve reviewed many lesbian sex toys over the years, but none delivers more efficiency than the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On. Its simplistic yet functional design is characterized by fascinating curves and a flexible neck that makes stimulating the wearer and receiving partner easy without discomfort. More importantly, the bulbous body enhances retention while adding a feeling of fullness that makes lesbian sex more thrilling.

“I loved the small bump close to the neck because it stretched my vagina when my partner was penetrating,” our lead product tester Sandra Larson wrote in her test report. “The node and graduating size after tapering enhanced retention, giving me more freedom to test the limits without worrying about it slipping out.” In addition, the supple neck (image below) made it easy to adjust the angle of penetration for maximum efficiency.

At first glance, the design seemed like it might be difficult to use, but once we put it to the test, it proved surprisingly intuitive. “I tried it solo before introducing it to my partner,” says Dr. Rachel Sommer. “I’ll admit, I was a bit nervous, and even with regular Kegel training, it felt like a bit of a workout at first. But once I found the rhythm, everything clicked. Overall, it felt natural and incredibly satisfying.”

Pro Tip: If you don’t have strong vagina muscles, we recommend trying to keep your legs closed or using sex positions where the penetrated partner sits on your lap because it takes away the pressure of keeping it in place (a nifty trick we learned from our tester Angela Kempf).

The Desire’s simplistic control interface has three buttons (image above) to select the mode and increase or decrease the intensity. Our testers found the controls easy to use, and even without independent motor control, the seamless interface made it ideal for everyone. Still, mode 3 turns the long shaft’s motor and leaves the shorter one to rumble, while mode 2 does the vice versa, giving you a bit of separate control because people have different preferences.

Unlike the competing sex toy brands, Desire Luxury had a convenient remote control (image below), significantly enhancing partner play. It eliminates the need to contort your body and stop the rhythm to change the stimulation once you’re comfortable. In addition, we loved that the remote automatically connected with the Desire Luxury once turned on.

Now, let’s talk about the well-thought-out dimensions. The strap-on has a 4.5″ insertable length and 4.25″ circumference, which makes it ideal for most sex toy users. Beginners might have to use a more secure strapped model like the Lovehoney Unisex Advanced, but intermediate and experienced folks will enjoy the measured thrill and excitement.

As mentioned before, we have reviewed dozens of Desire Luxury sex toys, and the build quality has never been a concern. The Strapless Strap-on was no exception. The choice of materials and quality of artistry spoke to the impressive attention to detail. The silicone finish felt squishy on the skin, and the multiple curves and flexible neck enhanced both partners’ comfort. Overall, a solid design.

The team thought the designers struck a good balance between comfort and functionality. While the dildo wasn’t the largest we tested, it wasn’t the smallest either. The comparatively fair dimensions make the toy ideal for different users, and you don’t necessarily have to be the most experienced.

Note: Regardless of your experience, we recommend sex positions that are gravity-friendly. Getting it right takes time and practice, and improvising goes a little way. Crossing your legs and prioritizing positions like cowgirl and spooning increases the chances of having the desired results.

The powerful motor was another impressive feature worth mentioning. Switching between the eight vibration modes offered enough room to customize the experience to match your sexual desires and experience. The best part is that it also has twelve intensities, making for one of the most extensive ranges of pleasure settings.

Good Alternative: Lovense Lapis

Unfortunately, Desire Luxury only has a remote control, which limits it to couples in the same room. If you want a device that breaks the barriers and lets you regulate each other’s settings from miles away, Lovense Lapis is your best bet. The Lovense Remote app is the best sex toy application we’ve ever tested, thanks to the intuitive interface and multiple customizations. It enhances versatility and allows for a more efficient experience regardless of the distance.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, there’s no way to regulate the internal pony and outer shaft separately. Both vibrate simultaneously, and some people might find being unable to regulate them independently annoying, especially when one partner wants the vibrations and the other doesn’t.

Strapless Strap-Ons are reserved for the more experienced folks. It takes time and training to get your Kegel powerful enough to clench onto the pony through different sex positions. We recommend starting with a strapped model if you’re not as experienced.

Why Lovehoney Desire Luxury is the best lesbian toy:

• Design: Our testers loved the simplistic yet functional design because it enhanced the user experience and amplified the sensations. Everything from the fascinating curves, flexible neck, and bulbous body made the product stand out from the competition. “I loved the small bump close to the neck because it stretched my vagina when my partner was penetrating,” says Sandra Larson. “The node and graduating size after tapering enhanced retention, giving me more freedom to test the limits without worrying about it slipping out.”
• Stimulations: The toy’s powerful motor was another highlight of the review. We found the slow progression in intensity and consistency impressive because it made it easy to build up to intense orgasms. The eight vibration modes and twelve intensities offered enough room to customize the experience to match your sexual desires. In addition, the powerful rumbles on both ends mean both partners enjoy the experience.
• Ease of Use: The strapless dildo’s intuitive 3-button interface rendered switching between the pleasure patterns straightforward. In addition, the included remote control enhances partner play, making it easy to enjoy the sensations without halting the experience or taking the toy out. A dedicated mobile app would be a great addition in the future, but the built-in control pad and wireless remote offer enough convenience for everyday sex toy users.

If you want to see what Desire Luxury looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone, ABS plastic
• Insertable Length: 5.5″ & 4.5″ (pony)
• Circumference: 4.25″ & 4.75″ (pony)

Pros:

• A simplistic yet functional design.
• Multiple vibration settings and intensity levels.
• The flexible neck makes it easy to hit the sweet spots.
• Phenomenal build quality.
• Powerful vibrations.
• Easy-to-use remote control.

Cons:

• Strapless strap-ons are reserved for the more experienced users.
• It’s a bit pricey – $119.99.

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2. LELO LILY 3: Best For Clit Stimulation!

Why we love LELO LILY 3:

LELO LILY 3’s compact size and well-thought-out design, with a flat head and a rounded tip, made it our favorite for clitoral stimulation. Whether you want to target specific zones on the clit or lay it flat for broader targeting, the clit stimulator does it all.

The team thought the classy, elegant design combined functionality and aesthetics flawlessly, ensuring you enjoy external stimulation with a beautiful and compact sex toy. It looked and felt small in the palm, and manipulating it for maximum stimulation was straightforward. More importantly, the well-thought-out shape with a flat face and rounded tip meant switching between pinpoint and broad stimulation was quick.

LILY 3’s flat shape also made it easy to slip between bodies during partnered sex. Unlike some more rounded sex toys we tested, it stayed in place with minimum efforts, allowing coupes to enjoy shared vibrations from the clit stimulator.

As expected, the user experience was straightforward, thanks to the small size and straightforward 2-button interface. Although things got slightly slippery when lube was involved, the lightweight piece was easy to use, as long as you had a clean towel within arm’s reach. Its flat shape made it easy to fit between bodies, and the waterproofness meant seamless cleaning.

Stimulation-wise, the team found LELO LILY 3 more impressive than anticipated. “The first vibration setting was more powerful than my partner and I expected from the compact, lightweight piece,” Rachel reported. “The rumbly vibrations got more intense as we cranked the volume, with a well-measured progression offering a gentle build-up to intense orgasms.”

The team reported that the motor churned out ten vibration settings, an impressive range of pleasure that makes it perfect for different consumers. Whether a beginner or an experienced user, the extended range of pleasure settings made it easy to customize the experience to match your sexual desires and moods.

LELO LILY 3 might not be the most versatile piece we tested, but the team highlighted why features like the waterproof design made it dynamic. It simplified cleaning and opened the world to endless possibilities, including shower and bath fun. In addition, the flat face made it easy to slide the sex toy between bodies during sex for enhanced partnered sex.

The build quality was rated as above average. Although an all-silicone body would’ve been better, the team loved the ABS plastic material. In addition, the company coated the entire piece with silky silicone, giving it a smooth finish. The plastic made the toy lightweight, allowing travelers to take it anywhere. In addition, the silicone coating offered some reprieve, allowing for extended use without discomfort.

Lastly, the vibrator was relatively quiet, making it suitable for people living in a shared space. When we tested it, the noise meter ranged between 37 and 40 decibels, which is very quiet compared to most other devices on this list. Notably, it got a bit louder when pressed against a hard surface, but also went almost silent when tucked between the thighs or a warm comforter.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Our main concern was the button placement. Positioning the buttons on the bottom of the vibrator meant we had to dig around to switch the patterns.

In addition, the small size and plastic body meant things got borderline out of control when the lube was involved. Things got slippery, and the small size didn’t help either. We recommend going slow on the lubricant and always having a clean towel within arm’s reach.

Why LELO LILY 3 is the most effective for clit stimulation:

• Design: Among the models we tested for this article, LELO LILY 3 proved the most effective for clitoral stimulation, thanks to the compact size and flat shape. These two tweaks made it easy to target specific points on the clit, while also allowing couples to slide it between their bodies during sex for amplified sensations. In addition, the foolproof 2-button interface on the bottom of the vibe made it easy to cycle through the ten vibration patterns.
• Stimulations: The 10 vibration settings ranged between slow murmurs and intense rumbles. Its extensive pulsations opened the door for different users, including beginners and experienced folks. In addition, the vibrations were rumbly from the first setting to the last, making the sensations fuller and ‘non-invasive’ like the buzzy vibrations. The testers also highlighted the well-measured gliding feeling between the settings, emphasizing how well it promoted smooth transitions and a more fulfilling experience.
• Ease of Use: Lastly, the team pointed out that the small size and lightweight build made the toy ideal for travelers. “The small package fits into my handbag every time I need it to, without requiring me to trade its place with another accessory,” says Rachel Sommer. “Although the button placement could be better, the 2-button control pad made switching between the vibration patterns straightforward.”

If you want to see what LELO LILY 3 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: ABS Plastic & Silicone
• Dimensions: 1.5 x 1.3 x 2.9″
• Weight: 1.6 ounces

Pros:

• A well-thought-out design.
• Foolproof 2-button interface.
• It is suitable for solo and partnered sex.
• The model is fully waterproof.
• A good one-year warranty.
• It is easy to use.

Cons:

• Awkward button placement.
• A remote control or mobile app would’ve been exceptional.

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3. Dame Fin: Highest-Rated Finger Vibrator!

After a series of testing rounds, the team unanimously picked Dame Fin as the best-performing finger vibrator. Its ergonomic design was the primary motivation because it simplified the user experience and elevated the quality of sensations. Everything from the inscribed finger grooves on the sides to the compact size and angled edges made it an exciting choice for lesbians. “The grooves on either side fitted perfectly on my fingers, successfully eliminating my earlier worries,” says Sandra Larson.

Like the Womanizer Vibe above, Dame Fin’s asymmetrical design opened many possibilities. Switching between pinpoint and broad sensations only took a quick turn from the front to the back. The pointed edge targeted specific spots more effectively, while the more expansive backside was ideal for broader external sensations. Dame Fin’s versatile design was the #1 reason we picked it as the best choice for lesbians in the market for a finger vibe.

The well-thought-out dimensions were another highlight of the experience. Our testers found Dame Fin compact and lightweight. If you find regular vibrators and wands too heavy in the hands, the smaller model will feel like nothing. In her report, Rachel Sommer describes it as the lightest sex toy in her collection. The best part is that the designer balanced functionality and size without necessarily taking away the power. “It felt like I had nothing in my palms, but the hefty vibrations once tucked inside my vagina were phenomenal,” one product tester wrote in her test report.

The product’s build quality was another highlight of the review. Longevity is a huge consideration when buying sex dolls, and Dame Fin won’t disappoint. The choice of materials and attention to detail were evident throughout the testing phase, underlining Dame’s commitment to excellence. We loved how the silicone finish felt exquisite, especially on the finger grooves, and the older folks we interviewed loved how comfortable the toy felt.

Dame Fin’s USB-rechargeable battery added a layer of convenience for self-pleasuring fans. “Some reviewers described the charging cable as fiddly, and you must jam it in a few times to get things right, but I’ve not had much of a problem with mine,” says Sandra Larson. “My partner and I loved the convenient charging light because it made it easy to keep tabs when the model was charging.”

Note: While the 2 hours + charging time can be problematic for some people, the product lasts well over five hours on low settings, an impressive feat for the powerful vibrator.

Lastly, the team found the vibrations comparatively powerful for its size. If you’re like me and hate buzzy vibrators, Dame Fin might not be for you. However, if you don’t mind them, the intense settings and multiple intensity levels (3) will make the experience thrilling. Building up to intense sensations was straightforward, thanks to the single-button interface.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the finger vibrator wasn’t waterproof, which dented the possibilities and made cleaning a bit more complicated.

While the Fin wasn’t the loudest we tested, users seeking a discreet experience might have to look elsewhere. We recommend the wearable Dame Eva – it might be more expensive, but it’s more discreet.

Why Dame Fin is the highest-rated finger vibrator:

• Design. As stressed before, Dame Fin’s ergonomic design was the primary motivation for picking it as the highest-rated finger vibrator. The finger grooves and impressive dimensions significantly simplified the user experience, making it ideal for extended use. In addition, its asymmetrical design made switching between pinpoint and broad clitoral sensations straightforward. The toy’s compact and lightweight design spoke to the designer’s balance between form and functionality. Sliding it between bodies was easy during sex, and so was it when playing solo, making the finger vibe an ideal choice for different users.
• Build Quality. We’ve tested numerous Dame products, and the build quality has always been top. Dame Fin’s build quality underlines the brand’s commitment to excellence because it brought forth high-quality silicone material and well-thought-out edges that made it easy to target specific spots on the clitoris for maximum pleasure. In addition, the well-fitting finger grooves enhanced the user experience while leaving one hand free to explore other erogenous zones.

If you want to see what Dame Fin looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 2.75″ (strap included)
• Diameter: 1″

Pros:

• Ergonomic finger vibrator.
• It is ideal for pinpoint and broad sensations.
• A secure tether promotes hands-free stimulation.
• The compact, lightweight design is perfect for travel.
• Multiple patterns and intensity settings.
• It comes with a convenient storage bag.

Cons:

• It’s not ideal for people after discreet self-pleasuring.
• The toy is not waterproof.

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4. Hismith 4.0 Sex Machine: Our Premium Pick!

Why we love Hismith 4.0 Sex Machine:

There is a lot to admire about this Hismith sex machine, but its powerful motor was the primary motivation for recommending it as our premium pick. According to Angela’s report, the machine is overkill, and you’ll only need to use 40% of the power. “While having it and not needing it has always been better than needing it and not having it, newbies will find the power too much, which is why we only recommend it to the most experienced folks.”

Our testers were eager to test the limits with this one. Unfortunately, the powerful motor limited our abilities because the highest speed we achieved was 35/100. The thudding intensity was almost unbearable, and Rachel Sommer needed multiple breaks.

Note: The machine’s thrusting depth ranges between 1.2″ and 6″. The extensive range enhanced hands-free play so you don’t need to move around – stand still and let the model do the hard work.

The phenomenal build quality was another highlight of the review. We loved the heavy metal bars because of how sturdy they made the sex machine. Even when we cranked the power to 100%, it held its position, bar a slight shaking that’s normal with these machines. The Hismith dildos were made from silicone, further underlining the brand’s commitment to excellence. We noted that they attracted dust quickly, but that’s not a new phenomenon with these silicone models, and it only meant better cleaning and storage plans.

Our testers also lauded the versatility aspect that made the sex machine ideal for different users. Its compatibility with multiple accessories, including pocket pussies and strokers, helped move away from the myth that sex dolls are one-dimensional. More importantly, the Vac-U-Lock adaptor meant you wouldn’t need to buy new dildos; you could use your old models if they were compatible with the universal adaptor.

In addition, the impressive 1.2″ to 6″ thrusting depth means you don’t have to move to enjoy the pleasure: stand still and let the machine do all the work.

Hismith 4.0’s well-thought-out design was another feature we couldn’t overlook. The designers struck a good balance between form and functionality, providing us with a hefty yet stable foundation to live our wildest sexual fantasies. The vertical and horizontal bars connect into what looks like a simplistic machine, but the robust motor and versatile build say otherwise.

Assembly is always a concern with sex machines, and our team was unsure of what to expect. Luckily, Hismith included a detailed manual that was easy to follow, and it took about 25 minutes to unbox and assemble the setup. More importantly, you won’t need much technical know-how, as the only thing to remember is to ensure the cords lock in place and the power cord notches perfectly. Otherwise, you’ll be frustrated when the machine doesn’t turn on.

Lastly, the team was happy that the sex machine was much easier to use than initially thought. Adjusting the height and penetration angles and manipulating the thrusting depth were quick. More importantly, the intuitive Hismith mobile application offered more customization options and introduced you to a community where you can save and share each other’s patterns.

In a funny twist, the phone backlight kept turning off, and we had to keep tapping the screen to avoid losing control. In addition, the app didn’t have a way to search for a favorite mode using a keyword. Hopefully, Hismith will make the necessary changes to improve the user experience.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the immense power meant the machine was deafening, especially in high settings. You could use music to mask the noise, but the sound will easily pierce through thin walls. We measured the output, and the decibels ranged between 37 and 61, a considerably high number.

While we believe the $599 price tag represents excellent value for money, budget seekers will find it expensive. If you just want a self-thrusting model to free your hands without spending hundreds of dollars, we recommend the resourceful Velvet Thruster Mini Teddy.

Why Hismith 4.0 Sex Machine is our premium pick:

• Stimulation: The power made it stand out from the competition, and the thrusting motor did a good job combining speed and torque. Unlike some other models that tend to choke up when the going gets tough, nothing stopped the 4.0. It felt like a treadmill; no other brand came close to the sheer power.
• Versatility: Our testers highlighted how the dynamic sex machine outdid the rest of the products we tested because of the immense power, number of settings, and impressive adjustability. Customizing the experience was straightforward, and its compatibility with different accessories was an added advantage. More importantly, the Hismith mobile app added to the possibilities and made the machine ideal for close-range and long-distance control.
• Build Quality: Hismith is known for its commitment to quality; the 4.0 was no exception. Its solid aluminum bars and robust craftsmanship enhanced the stability even when cranked to 100. In addition, the included dildos were made from high-quality silicone material, the best sex toy material. Its non-porosity significantly simplified cleaning and maintenance, eliminating the problem of bacteria replication common with porous materials.

If you want to see what Hismith 4.0 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Aluminum, Silicone
• Dildo Length: 8″
• Weight: 24 lbs.

Pros:

• The most robust motor.
• Simplistic and easy-to-use design.
• It’s a super versatile machine.
• You can use strokers and pocket pussies.
• It’s compatible with the Hismith app.
• Phenomenal build quality.

Cons:

• Some people will find it expensive.
• The machine can be loud.

If you buy the sex machine directly through the Hismith site, you can use a discount code: HM10 to get 10% off + Free Spring Attachment ($40 value)!

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5. Unbound Bender: Most Flexible!

Why we love Unbound Bender:

Unbound Bender’s flexibility was second to none. We tested numerous Lesbian toys, and Unbound’s supple silicone body felt the best. “Striking the G-spot was straightforward because manipulating the toy to a desired shape was quick and easy,” says Rachel Sommer.

Most review samples were either too rigid or too flimsy. However, the designers got it right with Bender, with a firm but bendable core and a squishy silicone finish that felt soft on the skin. “I have sensitive skin, and most sex toys tend to be uncomfortable after extended use, but I loved everything about Unbound Bender,” says Sandra Larson. “A combination of flexibility and precision made solo play more fun than anticipated.”

Note: The vibe’s wide tip is also perfect for broad sensations. However elusive your spot might be, you can’t miss it.

Bender’s linear body fits into tighter spaces during sex, making it easy to introduce vibrations to partnered play. Couples who enjoy slipping a toy between their bodies will appreciate the slim body.

Further, the powerful motor was another highlight. Our testers loved the variety because it offered four speeds and six patterns. The combination made for an exciting range of pleasure levels to explore, and customizing the sensations to match your sexual desires couldn’t be easier. We thought the vibrations could be more robust, but still, the variety meant more possibilities, especially for people seeking teasing fun.

Something else we loved was the phenomenal build quality. As stressed before, the smooth silicone material covers its entire body, creating a unique look. The non-porous material is the best among sex toy designers, and its non-porosity enhances the user experience.

Lastly, the versatility went beyond the slim body. We loved that the product was fully waterproof because it opened the door for exploration, including aquatic fun. “I don’t know about you, but sex is twice as fun in the water,” says Sandra Larson. “I love taking my toys in the shower, and Unbound Bender was no exception.”

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the many vibration settings tend to have a similar wavelength, and it takes cranking it to the extreme to note the difference. While the consistent bandwidth makes the toy ideal for teasing fun, it might not be the best choice for users after ultra-intense sensations.

Why Unbound Bender is the most flexible model:

• Design: Unbound Bender’s flexible design was the primary motivation for awarding it the top pick. The supple silicone body was easy to manipulate to achieve the desired results. In addition, the unique balance meant it wasn’t too rigid or extra flimsy to stand on its own. Its squishy silicone finish complemented the firm core, making for the perfect internal stimulation toy. In addition, the linear body slips in tight spaces during sex so that you can enjoy the extra kick of teasing vibrations.
• Stimulation: The powerful motor was another highlight of the review. The variety of four speeds and six patterns opened a world of new possibilities, making it easy to build up to intense orgasms. While the vibrations could be more robust, we thought they offered enough traction for folks after teasing fun to enjoy G-spot stimulation.
• Build Quality: The phenomenal build quality was evident in the all-silicone body and impressive attention to detail. Its unique linear body significantly simplified G-spot stimulation, while the non-porous nature made cleaning and maintenance straightforward.

If you want to see what Unbound Bender looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Girth: 2.5″ – 3.5″
• Length: 7″

Pros:

• The most flexible G-spot vibe.
• An excellent range of vibration speeds and patterns.
• The versatile toy doubles as a clit stimulator.
• It’s ideal for travel.
• 100% waterproof – (3ft for 30 minutes).

Cons:

• Its squishy body might lose shape from extended use.
• The switch in vibrations is hardly noticeable.

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6. Lovense Gemini: Our Favorite Nipple Clamps!

Why we love Lovense Gemini:

After thorough testing, our testers found Lovense Gemini’s versatility impressive enough to give it the #1 title. The pair is compatible with the Lovense app so you can customize the sensations from the comfort of your smartphone. Besides allowing for separate control of the motors, the app has multiple patterns, and you can create new ones to match your sexual mood and experience. In addition, you can sync the vibrations with your music playlist or use voice control for a more hands-free experience. This way, the sensations carry on while your hands focus on other erogenous zones, ultimately leading to more intense stimulation.

The designers did a good job of balancing functionality and realism. Some reviewers described the nipple clamps as bulky (you can see them in the image below), but it’s hard to see how the designer could introduce a vibration function without adding a chunky appearance. After all, nipple clamps aren’t wearable vibrators, so stronger vibrations are more critical than discreetness.

Note: We recommend wearing oversized clothes if you intend to wear the clamps in public. Also, start slow and always have your phone on hand to regulate the sensations—the vibrations can be unforgiving, and you don’t want to be the crazy lady in the restaurant ‘acting possessed.’

The build quality was another highlight of the review. Our testers pointed out that using 100% body-safe silicone and ABS materials on the clamps emphasized Lovense’s long-standing commitment to excellence. The IPX6 waterproof toy lets you experience the excitement in the shower or bath play. It also simplifies cleaning and maintenance, so you can enjoy a blast without damaging the toy.

Opinions on the build quality are somewhat divided on the Internet. Many reviewers praised the adjustable clamps, calling them a game-changer for users with different nipple types, whether inverted, flat, or protruding. Others, however, were less impressed, citing concerns about the nylon straps and lower-quality screw components. That said, we believe the strengths far outweigh the drawbacks. For those interested in light BDSM play, these clamps remain one of the most accessible and versatile options available.

The Lovense Nipple Clamps boast two powerful motors and multiple vibration patterns. A combination of light pinching and consistent vibrations creates the foundation for intense sensations, especially when coupled with penetrative sex. The 10 patterns and 3 intensity levels enhance customization based on your experience and sexual desires.

Lastly, the powerful motor performed well when we measured the noise output. Despite the power, the decibels ranged between 30 and 45, similar to a library setting. The best part is that the numbers went lower when we used a padded bra because it helped muffle the noise.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The main concern was the connection issues when setting up the mobile app. It took a while to get everything working, which can be annoying initially.

The seams and notches around the buttons are more prone to housing bacteria. We recommend cleaning them with a soft toothbrush and regularly sterilizing these areas to avoid bacterial buildup.

Why Lovense Gemini is our favorite nipple clamps:

• Versatility: Gemini’s compatibility with its mobile app added a significant layer of versatility. The user-friendly interface unlocked a wide range of features, including independent motor control, hands-free operation, and even voice activation. One standout feature lets you sync the vibrations with your music playlist, creating a sensory experience where the rhythm flows through both your headphones and your body.
• Stimulation: The nipple clamp’s powerful motor was another highlight of the review. Besides amplifying the excitement of teasing fun, the vibrations heighten the wearer’s experience during sex, making the experience more fulfilling. The best part is that 10 patterns and 3 intensity levels let you customize the experience for maximum pleasure. In addition, the mobile app enables you to enjoy more pleasure from music sync and voice control.
• Design: The attractive design impeccably balances functionality and realism, delivering a masterpiece that achieves the primary pinching function and adds a blend of light and intense rumbles to the experience. Although they might feel bulky, it’s hard to see how lighter clamps would have been made without affecting the power output.

If you want to see what the Lovense Gemini looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
• Width: 1.4″
• Length: 4.13″

Pros:

• A versatile set of nipple clamps.
• Relatively intuitive mobile app.
• Multiple vibration patterns.
• Impeccably balanced design.
• You can use the waterproof clamps in the shower.

Cons:

• The clips feel bulky.
• Limited cord length might be undesirable for people with larger breasts.

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We-Vibe Sync 2 is the perfect addition for lesbian couples. The flexible C-shaped design hands inside the vagina during penetrative sex. It combines power, comfort, and compactness, making it easy to manipulate the angles and enjoy the rumbles for extended sessions without discomfort. More importantly, app control helps couples in long-distance relationships bridge the intimacy gap. More on couples vibrators in this article.

Ruse Silicone Slim Double Dong is another well-thought-out dildo for lesbian couples to achieve double penetration. Notably, the textured shafts extend on both ends, and with an insertable length of 18 inches and a 1.25-inch diameter, the dildo is suitable for most users. The tapered head simplifies insertion, while the veiny cocks enhance the realism, making the experience more exciting. The best part about it is the identical design, ensuring both partners enjoy a similar thrill. More on double dildos in this article.

Happy vibing!

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Rachel is a clinical sexologist with a focus on LGBTQ+ and BIPOC issues. Originally from Texas, she loves sushi, white wine, and spending time with her partner Jessica. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Yahoo.com, Women's Health, Healthline, Glamour, and MindBodyGreen.
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